"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WTF, for a 1 y.o RAFC I sure get shot down a lot .

SageOFAllenAge

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Right, so after my 8 month LTR(1st gal), I was actually hopeful now that I was free to hit on chicks but Ive been getting a lot of turn downs infact thats all ive been getting since the past 4 months.

Im a 21 y.o old guy from India, on the looks scale im in the 6.5-7.5 range 5'9, 65 kgs ..just started working out since the past 3 months results are decent so far ...Im the sarcastic, witty kind of guy.

Problem is ..
I've asked about 9 girls out with the "I'd like to meet you, or lets meet up @ ___ line" but all Ive got is bull**** excuses so far telling me they cant make it.

Even done about 10 approaches albeit after some hesitation & got turned down there too.

Even after so many rejections Im holding up pretty well. But I want to seriously find out where Im going wrong & improve upon it. So help would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Frank Zappa

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Don't worry about it man... Just Relax, and keep on doing what you're doing. The best batters in this game only hit 300. It's okay to lower your standards to get back on the wagon, but don't lower your standards in the dating arena.

~Zappa
 

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You have two problems which are holding you back. The first is that you haven't asked anywhere near enough girls out. Going from an AFC to a DJ is not something which happens instantly. YOU HAVE TO DO HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS OF APPROACHES. I've probably done about 1000 approaches in the past year. I've got rejected so many times I can't count them all. Nine girls is not anywhere near enough. If you are serious about changing your life, you need to make a serious time commitment to it. Do at least 20 approaches a week if you want to get good.

The second problem is that you don't really know what being good with women involves because you haven't seen any guys with incredibly tight game in real life. These guys can teach you a lot. Many of them teach workshops, which are very expensive. Some are crap, some are lifechanging. If you don't have the $$$ to sign up for a workshop, I recommend that you at least meet these guys somehow. Vincent and Dimitri hold free mini-seminars, which is a good way for guys to meet them and see what REAL pick-up artists are like.

If you'd like more info on this stuff, PM me.

-Dan
 

SageOFAllenAge

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Hey DM , do you have MSN ?, if so add me at [email protected]

Today I called up this chick who keeps snakes in her house, seemed pretty interesting met her at this programme for the welfare of stray dogs ..chatted her up & got her #no.

Unfortunately shes 24 (Im 21) & shes got a guy .. heh oh well Onwards & Upwards!

BTW YOUR MAILBOX IS FULL ..:woo:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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