"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WTF does this mean?

Sam Adams

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So last night I went to a club with some guys. A sorority was throwing the event and I met this girl there. When she wasn't around my friends in the sorority kept telling me to hook up with her. Since when do girls tell you to go hook up with their friends??? What does this mean, I found out she didn't recently break up with a bf so I have no idea.

Also when I got the girls digits before I left she said don't wait two days. I don't want to seem desperate and call today so I thought I would tomorrow, but what does it mean when they say don't wait two days to call me. The girls I know in the sorority aren't giving me any clues either, they just say I don't know her too well. How should I approach this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DavenJuan

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id call 3 days later and tell her she said 2.

it doesnt mean anything to me other than the fact that she doesnt want you to wait to call her 2 days later.

I dont know what type personality she carries, but some women may take it the wrong way if you call WHEN SHE SAYS to call.

you have sh*t to do, you will call her when you have time.
 

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That is kind of how I approached it. I asked her then when do I call and she came back with in 5 minutes. I gave her look like ya that's BS. So I then said well if your lucky I'll give you a call, she laughed as we went our separate ways.
 

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If she was a freshman and going through pledgeship its not uncommon for them to be required to hook up with guys. Sometimes there are bonus points for upper classmen or random strangers, stuff like that. I can't say more without knowing more information, but I don't find it strange at all that her sisters were trying to get her to hookup.
 

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DoctorLW said:
If she was a freshman and going through pledgeship its not uncommon for them to be required to hook up with guys. Sometimes there are bonus points for upper classmen or random strangers, stuff like that. I can't say more without knowing more information, but I don't find it strange at all that her sisters were trying to get her to hookup.
Nope she is a junior like me and that stuff doesn't go down at a school as nerdy as the one I go to. Although it would be good at a school like this where people need to loosen up more.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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that is kinda weird. If you're not busy, just go ahead and call her -- assuming you think she's worthwhile. I don't really see much point in intentionally contradicting what she asked for if you don't need to. If you're busy, you can always call and set up a time to meet 2-3 days from now.
 

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I am a little perplexed by it. One of my friends said she would put in a good word for me to her tomorrow night at their sister meeting. She also said the reason I should hook up with her was because she was so nice and everybody likes her which I think is some BS. I'll probably wait to call her until my friend builds me up a bit. So I'll call Wednesday or something. She facebook friended me a few hours ago. Only my friends can see my profile so I think I will make her wait at least a day to check it out. You know peak her interest a bit. As soon as I do I'll drop a comment like "your trying to facebook stalk me already I better watch out."
 
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