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WTF did my friend just do to me!?

toddC

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Okay, so last night, I was supposed to hang with my boys and my girl and her friend were supposed to come to hang with us aswell. Now I'm a senior and my girl is a junior and there was a senior party last night that juniors weren't allowed to come. So I asked if we could just hang AFTER the party and she said yea and didn't seem mad because her friend was also having people over.

So me and my like 8 boys are at this party. I'm really not having that great of a time because I just really wanted to see my girl. So I was outside talking to a few kids and she calls me saying that she doesn't want to come to my friends when we leave the party. I asked why and she said because her friend doesn't know any of us and she doesn't want to feel weird. So I'm like ok WTF.

But then she says...if you and Jon (my friend who wanted her friend) could break away from all of your friends, then stop by. So I'm like ok, shes in the development over from my house and if my friends drop us over we can walk back home in about 10 minutes so they don't think we "ditched" them.

So Jon and I wanted to do that but one of our other friends got REALLY mad that he couldn't come. So he called my girl and *****ED at her calling her a ***** and shady and an a$$hole. Now at first I thought she wouldn't care cause it sounded like he was kidding....But he being completely dead honest. The last thing he said to her on the fun was...I hate you, you fvkin shady *****.

Now I'm a little tipsy so I didn't think anything of this until my girl called me.
She called me saying....Todd...DONT COME OVER NOW and hung up. So I called her back saying WTF liek it wasn't me that was my friend. And she sliek I know but still he shouldn't have done that and now i'm mad at u for it.

So I didn't call her back except 1 text I sent later that night sayign call me tomorow and I have yet to receive a phone call/text from her all day...I honeslty don't know WTF to do with my friend or how to handle this situation with my girl!
 

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snobby

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She'll get over it. It was a mistake that you sent her a text message. You should have waited for HER to make a move first, either send a text msg or call you.

Dont chase her, dont text her, dont call her. Let her communicate first.
 

toddC

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Yea but were like GOING OUT so I didn't think that I should still be playing the "I don't really care game"
 

snobby

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Well were you the one who insulted her friend? Nooo...it was your friends. That means...you were not responsible for what happened, and if she can't realize that, then chasing her and texting her will only make it worse. let her figure it out on her own and I can assure you that she will call sooner or later.
 
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