"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WTF? Did I sprain my jaw?

MetalFortress

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Last Wednesday at the gym, in the middle of a tough set of chinups involving lots of extra muscle tension to finish the last reps, I experienced what felt like a knife stabbing into my upper left jaw, between my ear and where my upper-left wisdom tooth would have grown in. This has happened before while lifting weights or while screaming along to music in my car, but to a lesser extent, and now, it slightly came back while I was yawning. What the heck is this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EFFORT

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From anatomy i can tell you the place you described is where your zygomatic bone connects with your mandibular fossa on your mandible (jaw).

I'm guessing you over extended your mandible and it didn't go straight back into the fossa like was supposed to and grinded or pushed against something causing the knife like pain.

I'm no md though, i would have it checked out if it continues to cause your trouble.
 

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Originally posted by EFFORT
From anatomy i can tell you the place you described is where your zygomatic bone connects with your mandibular fossa on your mandible (jaw).

I'm guessing you over extended your mandible and it didn't go straight back into the fossa like was supposed to and grinded or pushed against something causing the knife like pain.

I'm no md though, i would have it checked out if it continues to cause your trouble.
i duno what you said, but you can't make this stuff up.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
wtf? Shut up you troll

EFFORT: Thanks. It's gone now, hopefully never to return.
geez he is not a troll, he wasnt saying what you said was made up, he was saying the stuff the other guy said sounded so real and scientific that there is no way he could just be making it up as he goes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AmazingTricks

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Originally posted by coolguy676767
geez he is not a troll, he wasnt saying what you said was made up, he was saying the stuff the other guy said sounded so real and scientific that there is no way he could just be making it up as he goes.
you sir are an *******;)
 

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Yeah, that happened to me last week when I was trying to haul back a triple-decker turkey sub.

Rest it, don't talk a whole hell of a lot for a couple days if it ever happens again.
 

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i can make my jaw do that if i yawn really really really big...i know how bad it hurts too so i guess just try to avoid training your jaw to that point?
 

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I get that problem very often, had it about 4 times in 2005 year so far

I get it everytime someone gives me an uppercut/someone shoulders me from below/a basketball hits me in the face (somehow)/someone elbows me from below/i fall on a table or chair chin first

errm yeah but anyways that thing never last for more than 6 hours for me, personally I ice the jaw from the skin area where it hurts and it goes away near immediately
 

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im not sure what happened...but this has happened to me once. One time i was just opening my mouth and flexing my jaws, then i heard a crack/snap noise come from it. before i knew it, my left jaw was in pain anytime i widened my jaw.

but after a few days, the pain slowly disappeared and my jaw now is fine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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