"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And let's not forget the beauty of the pure booty call guys. Several times with online girls I've had to defuse their ASD while speeding over to their place with a box of booze and toys. The only tedious part is telling them how special they are when they give you the I don't normally do this speech. I can pretty much guarantee they do a lot.

The point I'm making is woman have plenty of different moods. Never be butthurt because she could be blowing you off one day and then blowing you the next. It's like when I approach a chick at a bar or whatever venue and get the brush off. I always put out my hands go for the pulse handshake look her in the eye with my head slightly on one side and say pleasure meeting you. Couple of hours later that good-looking beta might have failed her shi1t tests, she's had a few more drinks and her girlie bits r itching for a pounding. Guys play long game play short game be made of game. Just like good politicians seem to sweat Teflon you should sweat game.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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