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Wtf Almost Every Guy Uses ****y & Funny At My School

dadmonson

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I noticed that. Almost all of them do. It seems kinda corny and cheesy to me, kinda. How in the world r u supposed to set yourself apart from the rest if a lot of people r already bein ****y and funny?
 

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dannowillbookem

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if you have entered a twighlight-zone area where everyone uses ****y and funny, congratulations. u're probably pretty well instilled with it and it will affect you for the rest of your life.

and i think half the battle is standing out. so be different.




but honestly theres no way these people all use ****y and funny
 

KevboTheThird

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i like how dj4real emphasized the "funny" part. if everybody really is doing it, then chances are that a lot of the jokes are really old by now. you just gotta be unique with the stuff you say and tease them for or whatever, and actually be funnier than the others. ya know?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Boner da Stoner

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If everybody does it, find out which ones do it the best, and than learn from the master...

I know C+F guys who blow everybody out of the water because they can pick on people while everybody else laughs with him, while the poor sucker gets razzed... and in the end it is only a joke and they have to accept it, he was doing nothing wrong :p

What you need to do is become immune to it, get people to be ****y and funny to you ,and come back here and tell us the secret of going beyond the situation...

I try and surround myself with naturals and pua's I go to parties with guys who find girls any time they want, and than on days where they are busy the next they honestly say that they don't want to talk to the girls... and than they get back going with their jokes...

to overcome ****y and funny you have to realize you don't climb above it, you become part of it...

than use your further abilities to impress:

don't just get a job, make the job and fit into it, be the job.
Don't just have style, be the style, flaunt it.
Don't just be a man, show other people you are the man, a man they must respect if they want to get anywhere, you are the one who will hold the key if you play it right...

It is tough, and nobody can make you do it, just don't slip into the background and believe that everybody is better than you ;)
 

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Most people just use ****y & funny hiding there true selfs. They almost use, mocking themselves sometimes.
 

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These ****y people are usually your average popular kids.

They're all ****y but they have a great disadvantage, they're all the ****ing same god damn person except they have small things that set them apart, maybe one is the funny guy, the other is the tough guy, the other is the funny skinny tough guy etc. They're all ****y and funny by nature because they have a superiority complex over the lower classmen and everyone. It's a very shallow and common thing that happens.

****y and funny is completely different than just being an arrogant popular kid.

You basically have 2 choices.

1. Join them and become their leader.

2. Become your own person and start your own group of friends that do fun things all the time.

Girls get sucked into small groups of friends a lot, especially if the small group keep up the morale of confidence and fun, and if they are laid back and fun then it doesn' t really matter. You can easily suck hot girls into this. So, not only is it better off this way, you usually get a higher quality of friends than your meatheaded popular kids that are afraid of showing any type of friendship towards each other except for "having their back" or similiar bull****.

These small groups of friends usually have popular kids as friends also. So you will basically be your own unique snowflake. hahahahahaha.

Make sure your friends are confident, funny, unique, and you guys know how to have a good time.
 
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