WTF?- A girl brought All the Topics you should avoid on a date!How many girlfriends?

[SUPER SHY FRIEK]

So invited out a gal for a cup of coffee. She is definitely at least a solid 9. I picked her up at her place. As we headed, to the mall for the coffee the conversation seemed to be heading in the right direction. However, there were a lot of red flags and "weird topics" that she brought up. I would appreciate if the more experienced guys in this forum can help me decipher what this girl is all about....

Some of the comment and questions she made:
1. My brother and father have been protective to me my whole life
2. She spoke about religion and told me her beliefs and then asked what I believed in... WTF? I said I was raised christian, but I don't practice any formal religion now.
3. She spoke about politics and pollution. I never gave her a clear cut answer about my posture... I just stated that people's views about politics many times is based on the environment one grows up in. At no moment, did I mention that I was Anti-Bush and he was the anti-christ.
4. She spoke about being daddy's girl
5. She asked me how many girl friends I have had. Once again, I avoided this question, and didn't give her a straight answer. I just stated that moving around a lot hasn't given me the chance of having a close relationship with someone.
6. She spoke about how she wanted an inexperienced guy in the dating game because she doesn't want to be compared with other girls.
7. Spoke about marriage. WTF? How she wants to be a good mom.

Hey all of these are good qualities on a women you want to marry. I, however, can't understand why she brings up all this stuff on a guy she barely knows.


I don't know guys, but most prob this girl is new to the dating game. I wouldn't want to let go of a cutie like this. However, at the same time this girl seems to have a lot of things going on. I really don't know what to do. Should I ever call her again, or just next her. She's a very smart girl and attractive, but it seems like she's got some serious issues going on from what you guys just read....

 

[Kevin Cass]

shes weird? why would she say all those things? maybe she was trying to scare you off..i dunno but this is pretty weird.

 

[SUPER SHY FRIEK]

Anybody else cares to comment?

 

[driveon]

haha, your logic says fck it.. and your penis says fck her...

are you willing to accept (red flags) the possibility of drama/being threatened by daddy & big brother, etc for a piece of ass?


Ultimately you'll avoid chicks like this cause you'll have standards but I'm not there yet and neither are you (as evidenced by you bringing this up) so .... it comes down to:

how horny are you?
and what other options do you have?

 

[Pappadapolis]

Its sounds like she sees you as a "friend".

 

[Jay Jay]

I'll take a stab in the dark

1. She wants to and expects to be spolied.


2.Religion (or lack thereof) is often important (in a girls head) when meeting a guy. Don't worry about this. Is she doesn't agree with lots of your beliefs she won't be able to resist "saving you."

3. Ahhh... now it makes sence... the anti-christ knows you are onto him and sent a minion in the form of 9 to distract you.

Or maybe those things are important to her. Personally I don't date girls who don't care about the environmentt... its my little revenge on all those people destroying MY ****ING PLANET!!!

4. See my answer to Q1

5. Thats scary....

6. She is massively inexperienced and shy. She wants you to tell her its all okay.

7. Respect, dude, for not running. Respect. You have way bigger balls than me.

Personally I think she's just a bit sheltered and lacks experience with a wider circle of people. She sounds really sweet so be nice... but remember she has the same needs as any other woman.

The stuff about being a Daddy's girl is gold however... She will love it if you take control.

But be careful... she might be a minion of darkness... and don't go round spraying Dubya's real identy all over the net! Sheesh!

JJ

 

[amoka]

100% hor. " My brother and father have been protective to me my whole life" Of course they know her. They have to prevent her from distroying their dignity along with hers.
"She spoke about how she wanted an inexperienced guy in the dating game because she doesn't want to be compared with other girls." She pictured you as such an individual and would like to bang you but at the same time appearing not to be interested. Btw, is she 13yrs old? Only teenagers behave as such: tried running out of the house to have baby and be a "good mom" while her parents struggle to keep her in contained. Make sure she is not under-age.

 

[Phyzzle]

She's just a clueless AFC female nerd. Next time she brings this stuff up, you can tell her to cool her jets on the marriage talk. "I barely know you lady!" Say it in a light, humorous way.

It sounds like she hasn't been on too many dates, or read too much about dating. This could be a good thing for you.

 

[PRMoon]

Honestly this sounds like a big waste of time to me. If she spouts off all that crap on your first date, you're in for a very long series of subsiquent dates where she's going to attempt to condition you into her way of thinking or likely dump you. She's in that phase of her life where she THINKS she knows what she's looking for in a mate and is seeking to find a premade one or mold whoever she's around into that type of person. Trust me when I say, you do not want to go down that path. It's not fun, it's not beneficial to you as a DJ and even less as a man. You're going to get verbally kicked in the teeth repeatedly and have little opportunity to express your own opinions, ever. You'll also likely be rewarded for bending to this mental conditioning with breif episodes of physical contact, on her terms only.

My advice, put her in the friends zone pronto or dump her altogether. I'd dump her because I have enough pretetious people in my life and hate dodging phone calls from "friends" who I don't want to talk to. Nothing beats a good solid rejection to keep those people at bay. You however could possibly be more of a gentleman than I and go the "You know I don't really see a dating future for us, but I think it'd be swell for us to be friends " Who know she might have some attractive slutty friends lying around.

 

[lookyoung]

Listen she doesn't have alot of issues going on. She just knows what she wants in a guy? She wants a serious relationship.


THis is my advice to you. If you want a wife, or a Gf than this is the type of girl you want to be with. If a girl said this to me, I wouldn't be freaked out at all. I would rather get serious with a girl like this, than some slut.

How old are you? How old is she?


And one more thing. If your experienced with woman. Experienced meaning you have banged more than 10 chicks, and want to settle down, than give this girl a shot.


If your not experienced and want a quick piece of azz than cut her loose.

 

[Trojan]

So invited out a gal for a cup of coffee. She is definitely at least a solid 9. I picked her up at her place. As we headed, to the mall for the coffee the conversation seemed to be heading in the right direction. However, there were a lot of red flags and "weird topics" that she brought up. I would appreciate if the more experienced guys in this forum can help me decipher what this girl is all about....

Some of the comment and questions she made:
1. My brother and father have been protective to me my whole life
2. She spoke about religion and told me her beliefs and then asked what I believed in... WTF? I said I was raised christian, but I don't practice any formal religion now.
3. She spoke about politics and pollution. I never gave her a clear cut answer about my posture... I just stated that people's views about politics many times is based on the environment one grows up in. At no moment, did I mention that I was Anti-Bush and he was the anti-christ.
4. She spoke about being daddy's girl
5. She asked me how many girl friends I have had. Once again, I avoided this question, and didn't give her a straight answer. I just stated that moving around a lot hasn't given me the chance of having a close relationship with someone.
6. She spoke about how she wanted an inexperienced guy in the dating game because she doesn't want to be compared with other girls.
7. Spoke about marriage. WTF? How she wants to be a good mom.

Hey all of these are good qualities on a women you want to marry. I, however, can't understand why she brings up all this stuff on a guy she barely knows.


I don't know guys, but most prob this girl is new to the dating game. I wouldn't want to let go of a cutie like this. However, at the same time this girl seems to have a lot of things going on. I really don't know what to do. Should I ever call her again, or just next her. She's a very smart girl and attractive, but it seems like she's got some serious issues going on from what you guys just read....

I actually like this type of girl. Very open and you kinda know whats going on in her head. These types carry thier emotions on thier shoulder. You said she was a solid 9, Ive never been able to turn down a solid 9's azz of yet & propbably wont start to either. I'd proceed to banging this chick and deflect her opinionated comments and keep her as fvck buddy until she asks for more.

 

[insanity]

this girl is bang worthy and thats it. don't let her looks fool you, because if this was just a half decent looking girl you would have ran for the hills or you would have sat back and mocked her. from your description it seems like you have no real simular interests and down the road that spells disaster.

 

[Scorched]

Well it sounds like she was trying to qualify her self with you...
Which is good...