"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have been doing some nice physical improvements, damn I look good.

But I never get out, im living in a small town, with no activites at all. I never get outside my room, my dear computer is my only friend, seriously.

I have nowhere to go, its sad. life,life. Im 15, so i still got to educate and ****, but the school im in, sucks. All girls in my class are ****, seriously, HB6 is the highest rating, ew.

The worst thing is that summerholidays are coming up, and I have absolutely nothing to do. I want to get off my computer, but where should i go? What the **** can I do beside hugging my computer all summer?

kthxbai
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Get a hobby, go on a vacation, hang out with friends, make a daytrip to a bigger city, hang out with girls in other classes, there's to much to do in this world to sit behind your computer 24/7
 
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i hardly believe that there are towns in the world where the best looking girls are 6s... look outside your school, don't be shy
 
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Originally posted by Holland
Get a hobby, go on a vacation, hang out with friends, make a daytrip to a bigger city, hang out with girls in other classes, there's to much to do in this world to sit behind your computer 24/7
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Travling to a big city... yeah... But wtf should I do, even if I get a girl, she would be living too far away, it wouldnt work out.
 
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Originally posted by J.O
Travling to a big city... yeah... But wtf should I do, even if I get a girl, she would be living too far away, it wouldnt work out.
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its alot easier to have a girlfriend from another town in the summer, because school doesn't interfere.

just try to meet girls, if it works out and you meet a good one, then you figure out how to see each other. don't make excuses so you dont have to try, because you are even if you dont realize it.

get er done
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Jay-X
i hardly believe that there are towns in the world where the best looking girls are 6s... look outside your school, don't be shy
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you haven't answered to this one yet... and anyway, the "she would be living too far"-stuff is bullsh1t.

i've been with my girlfriend for the last year (yeah, even during school) and i've been seeing her almost everyday with no problems, even though she lives in another town. you can take the bus or even a mountain bike... every saturday afternoon, i manage to cycle to her place and then come back to my city to play basketball with my friends before going out with all of them (my friends and her) in the night...
on sundays, i often go to her place to have dinner and then i go back home in time for my work out sessions...


i strongly believe you are just making excuses with yourself...
 
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Originally posted by J.O
I have been doing some nice physical improvements, damn I look good.

But I never get out, im living in a small town, with no activites at all. I never get outside my room, my dear computer is my only friend, seriously.

I have nowhere to go, its sad. life,life. Im 15, so i still got to educate and ****, but the school im in, sucks. All girls in my class are ****, seriously, HB6 is the highest rating, ew.

The worst thing is that summerholidays are coming up, and I have absolutely nothing to do. I want to get off my computer, but where should i go? What the **** can I do beside hugging my computer all summer?

kthxbai
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i feel your pain..... youre situation seems almost identical to my own and i know how boring your life must be right now.
 
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