“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Baruch

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I am live in the states almost 5 years so my english isnt that bad. But whenever it comes to writing papers in college, i end up dropping the class because i could never complete the essay.

are there any books\guides that would help me in organizing and writing a paper for college classes?

thanks in advance
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why dont you take an english composition course in your college (in mine its required anyway). if you're having problems with writing,talk to the professor, they're usually very helpful.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Levex
why dont you take an english composition course in your college (in mine its required anyway). if you're having problems with writing,talk to the professor, they're usually very helpful.
Excellent advice.
 

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Try On Writing Well by William Zinsser. You can find it, and other similar books, online at Amazon.com, at your local bookstore, or at your college bookstore.
 

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reading a lot helped me, especially with broadening your vocabularly.

and just making sure you cover your grounds with your thesis.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your university should have a free special tutoring program for International Student that have problems with English. At lest mine has.

You might want to look into that.
 

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I was in nearly the same position as you, except I was the best student in my English class.

I spent 5 years in the US, so logically my writting kind of sucked. SO I just started reading a lot of a books, there was I time where I'd read a book per day.

Basically what you should do it, it'll help more than anything, is head over to a library, get yourself a book that has also a tape recording of someone narrating it.

Then sit at home with a dictionary and listen to the tape while reading the book simultaneously (pause the tape when you have to look in the dictionary obviously).

What I found is that this increased my vocabulary, my writting skills AND my pronounciation 500%.

ALSO, as someone else mentioned, talk to the teachers. LET THEM KNOW you're from a foreign country and English "so good not so", that way they'll be much more giving & considerate when grading your papers.

Sit at home and try to write an essay in your native language. If you still have a hard time, then your problem isn't with the language -- it's your writting skills (it doesn't really matter what language it's in, it's how you collect and put your thoughts together).
 
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