"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Wrist Problem

WrEcKLeSS2000

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Hey everyone. Basically this has been an injury plagued year so far. I had tendinitis in my elbow, so I couldn't lift for a month. Now I'm finally back to lifting but I have some pain in my wrist when I bend it like for doing pushups. It doesn't hurt when I lift weights only when I bend it. What should I do? I even didn't lift weights for several weeks and it still didn't get better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stronglifts

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WrEcKLeSS2000 said:
Hey everyone. Basically this has been an injury plagued year so far. I had tendinitis in my elbow, so I couldn't lift for a month. Now I'm finally back to lifting but I have some pain in my wrist when I bend it like for doing pushups. It doesn't hurt when I lift weights only when I bend it. What should I do? I even didn't lift weights for several weeks and it still didn't get better.
do some wrist stretches

If you're a desk jockey, I guess it's the elbow of the arm you're using to control your mouse.

Check your posture
* shoulders rolled forward?
* upperback bent?

It always comes from the shoulders.
 

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use workout gloves with wrist wraps, should stabilize your wrist more.
 

WrEcKLeSS2000

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bman said:
use workout gloves with wrist wraps, should stabilize your wrist more.
Good idea...where can I get some good wrist wraps and what brand? I use workout gloves by the way.

Also, my wrist is still bothering me. I've been icing several times a day, and I just started taking time off from the gym for rest. Am I doing all I can for this? How long do sprains usually take to heal?
 

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Hmm.. along the same topic, I broke my wrist playing football years ago and have always felt alot of pain in my wrist since then when attempting to do curls, bench presses or anything when lifting heavy on my wrist. I also pulled the tendon in my wrist a few years back.. Always thought it was just that my wrist was bum now after beign broken and stuff.. maybe it's just that it needs stretching out properly...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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