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wrist hurts... now what?

Panther

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Well it seems like last work-out day I ****ed up my wrist. It doesnt hurt very much, but still...

What would you guys do in this position:

1) Go to the gym as normal, hope wrist doesnt get worse and gets better eventually

2) Take a week off, and **** up your training program

3) Go to the gym normally but do lighter weights till the wrist gets better, and hope it recovers till next week

I'm leaning towards (3) myself

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Reto

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Give it a rest.

Go to the gym. Do legs one day, some cardio the next. Abs the next. What ever... Just give your wrist a break. You don't want to permanently injure yourself...
 

drixsa

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i just have been having wrist problems too.

what excercise was your wrist bothering you?

mine was the french press(skull crushers) and the upright rows( shoulder)

while i am now doing some rehab for my ankle the dr. does ultrasound for my ankle and now does it for my wrist.

i went heavy for 2 weeks ignoring the pain and it was not good.

but after having her do it once my wrist was back to normal now i think ive had it done 3-4 times and am almost positive its back to normal

also they sell ace bandages to keep your wrist snug
 

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Hey, i hurt my wrist about two weeks ago when i worked too much weight too soon on curling. I'm wearing a velcro McDavid wrist brace now. Not only do i wear it tight when i lift now, i wear it throughout the day, and it seems to have made a difference. I also took about five days off from curling, and when i did get back to curling, i started into it by not maxing the weight like i did before.
Also, instead of just grabbing the curling bars at the gym, i started curling with the machine, which seems to make my wrists hurt less.
But dude, you better back off and let it heal. I asked my powerlifter friend his advice, and he said, "if i could go back in time and do everything over, i would stop or slow down when i got an injury, cause i just tried to work through it, and made it worse, and it took longer to heal."
 

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It actually bothers me when i do almost anything involving my arms.

But it seems I hurt it in a shoulders/legs day, so it might have been lateral raises or upright rows.

Well what i did today is try and work around it, that is do stuff that didn't hurt.

Had Chest/triceps day, so i did a lot on the fly machine (which used no wrists) and some DB presses (was much better than benching) for chest, and DB overhead extention and some diagonal one-arm cable pull for the triceps.

I'll see what I can do for back-biceps...

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You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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depending on how bad the pain was:

i have hurted my wrists twice, once was from doing a wrist bar curl too fast with normal weight, I ignored it and it lasted for 3 weeks.

second time I hurt it with skull with heavy weight, and I took cuation and it is back to normal today after 8 days with light to normal weights.

the second time was far worst than first time but with cuation, it healed faster.

my advise, take 3-4 days off, then do light - normal weights, that is what helped me to a speedy recovery the second time.

aslo be SURE to do alot of wrist scretch before training.
 

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buy a wrist brace, and put ice on it while watching t.v or other leisure activity. O yea, and take a pain killer before u work out. should go away in no time. One thing that has been bothering me is this thing called carpal tunnel syndrome, i have no idea how to get rid of it.
 

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I got to thinking and up-right rows hurt my wrists. So, I don't do them. There are other exercises that you can do... Everybody's body is different.
 

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Update:

Got messed up tendon, haven't done anything but Legs for weeks and its gonna take a bit more time with wrapped up hand

Lesson learned: if you feel discomfort doing an exercise, stop! better give it a week of rest than lose a month due to injury

ThePanther
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Back when i started doing dips, i would get this every week, but not anymore. I never took time off because the pain usually stopped on the next day. However, if yours is still hurting, let it rest or risk serious injury.
 
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