"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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woww help me with this one...(new girl)

iturbide1981

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ok i meet this puerto rican girl...like two weeks ago..(shes 2 years older than me) and already has a kid...i meet her in a club...you could say we hit it off the first day...SHE WALK MEEE ... to my car...and me dumbass didnt do anything but say goodnight and that was all...the second saturday..we went into the same club, dance..and before you know it....we were french kissing....and yesterday..i took her out to eat...since i am still..you could say an afc...(i mean i can get the girls..to be friendly but still i have problems putting the moves on) ...i took her out to eat..we talk for like 5 hours....during dinner and and hour in the parking lot....so at the end...i told her well i better get going..and she hugged me and kissed me...(and i said...this is the desert i was waiting for) and she said stick around and i can give you more dessert...and as i was walking to my car..shes like hold on a second come back...i go back..she ran her hand thru my back..and grab my ass....and she said..yes like i thought you have a nice back...and that was all...

tell me this..is it good to be messing with a single mom? i am i taking advantange...
dont want to hurt any feelings. (ive only know her for 2 weeks..) she know what shes getting into?
i dont want any attachments does that make me an ass hole?
will she ruin my scene in the club..(my favorite club) later on..when she sees me with somebody else?

suggestions please...shoul i F U C K ..OR JUST SKIP IT ...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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iturbide1981

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so

i am not taking advantage..damn i am a wuss..huh...i just dont want to hurt any feelings, those that make me ...like less than a men? or i am trying to hard to be mr nice....should i just follow my manly insticts and forget the rest
 

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iturbide1981 said:
ok i meet this puerto rican girl...like two weeks ago..(shes 2 years older than me) and already has a kid...i meet her in a club...you could say we hit it off the first day...SHE WALK MEEE ... to my car...and me dumbass didnt do anything but say goodnight and that was all...the second saturday..we went into the same club, dance..and before you know it....we were french kissing....and yesterday..i took her out to eat...since i am still..you could say an afc...(i mean i can get the girls..to be friendly but still i have problems putting the moves on) ...i took her out to eat..we talk for like 5 hours....during dinner and and hour in the parking lot....so at the end...i told her well i better get going..and she hugged me and kissed me...(and i said...this is the desert i was waiting for) and she said stick around and i can give you more dessert...and as i was walking to my car..shes like hold on a second come back...i go back..she ran her hand thru my back..and grab my ass....and she said..yes like i thought you have a nice back...and that was all...

tell me this..is it good to be messing with a single mom? i am i taking advantange...
dont want to hurt any feelings. (ive only know her for 2 weeks..) she know what shes getting into?
i dont want any attachments does that make me an ass hole?
will she ruin my scene in the club..(my favorite club) later on..when she sees me with somebody else?

suggestions please...shoul i F U C K ..OR JUST SKIP IT ...
It's probably too late now anyway. Five hours talking? Taking advattage of what? She wants to be ****ed.
 

iturbide1981

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wow...........

if anybody sees my threads... that i had put...i had a oneitis for a YEAR....but after i met this puerto rican girl...my milf.....my god...i guess it wasnt bad talking bad for 5 hours.... I HAD HER BEGGING. for me... we went dancing ....to the same club as my oneitis....and after three songs....my girl...she just sat on me and started to kiss me...we were making out for hours...no lying...i got there at 11pm till 4am...then around 130am shes like lets go to your car i cant wait anymore.....and i am like lets take our time...dont worry about...slowly is better...jajjajaja.FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE I FELT LIKE A MEN..she was telling me i was bad the rest of the night....then after that i did not do it in the car i took her to holyday inn...and made love for 2 hours.....around 5.45am her siste started to bang the door that it was time to go...i left her with my brother outside...and my girl at that time was still sucking my ****...but before that ....when i gave her and orgasm..i swear...i was laughing inside myself....LAUGHING .....and the thing is i barely used my ****...i was fingiring and licking all night....I THINK I GOT RID OF MY ONETIS.....i think she saw me too..jajjajaja I LOVE YOU GUYS......I JUST DONT READ....THESE LOVELY THEADS.....I PUT THEM INTO PRACTICE
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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