"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've noticed alot of wannabe djs are sort of missing the whole concept of being a 'dj'.

In my opinion the core of dj skills and the most effective of them is your mind set.

I beleive these things form the core of your djism:

*you'll have heard this millions of times. The point in repeating this is to clear your mind of all the other crap you've read on here that you dont really need

Confidence-

In all that you say, your opinions, actions morals etc. Faith in yourself. Confidence doesnt mean being a big tough man and fighting someone because they talked to you the wrong way. Your ****yness comes from your confidence. You dont need to run around being super ****y, but just be confident in an ability to the extent that if it is challenged you are certain you will overcome.

Challenging

Make it difficult to be obtained. Be in control of how much of yourself you give to girls. Moderation is good, being excessive and abundant will make you less desirable.

Serenity-

You never get riled up and ruffled, you are constantly in control of your emotions and actions. So no *****ing and temper tantrums. When you get rejected you dont crap yourselfa bout it and cry for 4 days, you move on.


Those are just examples, but I beleive that all these form the core of a dj.

What do you think? :eek:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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