"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've noticed alot of wannabe djs are sort of missing the whole concept of being a 'dj'.

In my opinion the core of dj skills and the most effective of them is your mind set.

I beleive these things form the core of your djism:

*you'll have heard this millions of times. The point in repeating this is to clear your mind of all the other crap you've read on here that you dont really need

Confidence-

In all that you say, your opinions, actions morals etc. Faith in yourself. Confidence doesnt mean being a big tough man and fighting someone because they talked to you the wrong way. Your ****yness comes from your confidence. You dont need to run around being super ****y, but just be confident in an ability to the extent that if it is challenged you are certain you will overcome.

Challenging

Make it difficult to be obtained. Be in control of how much of yourself you give to girls. Moderation is good, being excessive and abundant will make you less desirable.

Serenity-

You never get riled up and ruffled, you are constantly in control of your emotions and actions. So no *****ing and temper tantrums. When you get rejected you dont crap yourselfa bout it and cry for 4 days, you move on.


Those are just examples, but I beleive that all these form the core of a dj.

What do you think? :eek:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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