"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All of this DJ stuff is great and may work for some people. Listen to this though guys , If I wanted to be messing around with a bunch of girls all I would have to do is start smoking pot...and continue to be preppy.

Honestly thats what the chicks like around here. I'm ready to do it. My friends know it'll work , but don't think it's worht it to get into that ....

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow.....

Yeah... thats highschool.

Go smoke some weed and be cool...
 
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only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.
 
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Originally posted by undesputable
only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.
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My feelings exactly.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah i dont like being high either.. it completley messes you up if your trying to get in to shape lol.. Considering I love to eat when I get high the munchies for me are like.. Whoah. I could eat a whole refrigerator of food.
 
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Originally posted by undesputable
only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.
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Same with me...Just get drunk instead...
 
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Are you f**king retarded? If you even thought about doing drugs to get girls, you don't deserve them. HS girls don't know what they want, or if they think they do know, it's something stupid like crackheads like you. Grow up and find some worthwhile pu**y after high school.

Damn dogg...
 
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I dont smoke and I got 7 #s tonight at a hs dance. Made out witth 6 of them... 2 at the same time. Had 3 pairs tits in my hands (I moved/removed shirts). I dont smoke pot.
 
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That's actually pretty true.

Highschool is all about social proof, if something is considered "the ultimate cool", and you've got it, you're set.

Just like the other men put it, if you like getting high and have no moral problems with it, then smoke.

If you don't, don't.

If you want you can do a search on "WEED", there's a huge topic with extensive overviews from alot of people including one I wrote.

And uh... here it's pretty different. Weed's not exactly 'cool', the girls don't dig it (if you're around someone with a stoner rap, you get a bad rep - for those wondering bad rep is like the opposite of social proof).

I also can't talk when I'm high, I overanalyze and feel a decline in confidence -- but I do smoke every once in a while because I like comming up with ideias that I couldn't come up with sober.

But it has nothing to do with girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wanna be cool? Have a mind of your own instead of asking others what to do.
 
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Originally posted by Limitless
All of this DJ stuff is great and may work for some people. Listen to this though guys , If I wanted to be messing around with a bunch of girls all I would have to do is start smoking pot...and continue to be preppy.

Honestly thats what the chicks like around here. I'm ready to do it. My friends know it'll work , but don't think it's worht it to get into that ....

Your thoughts?
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wow, i think we have a winner for most useless post ever

What does this have to do with being a dj? This has nothing to do with bettering your game.

if your friends think this will work, then your friends are morons. doing drugs changes nothing about getting girls, it just means you can make friends with all the stoner chicks who will probably just hit you up for cash and weed later on.

trust me on this man, its not worth it. I've known girls like this and their just losers looking for the next high, they don't give a sh!t about you or your feelings.
 
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