"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow....

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All of this DJ stuff is great and may work for some people. Listen to this though guys , If I wanted to be messing around with a bunch of girls all I would have to do is start smoking pot...and continue to be preppy.

Honestly thats what the chicks like around here. I'm ready to do it. My friends know it'll work , but don't think it's worht it to get into that ....

Your thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wow.....

Yeah... thats highschool.

Go smoke some weed and be cool...
 

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only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.

My feelings exactly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah i dont like being high either.. it completley messes you up if your trying to get in to shape lol.. Considering I love to eat when I get high the munchies for me are like.. Whoah. I could eat a whole refrigerator of food.
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
only smoke if you like being high. To be honest i HATE being high. When Im high i overanalyze everything, theres 1000 thoughts in my head, i cant talk, and im lazy, and im worthless at talking to girls.
Same with me...Just get drunk instead...
 

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Are you f**king retarded? If you even thought about doing drugs to get girls, you don't deserve them. HS girls don't know what they want, or if they think they do know, it's something stupid like crackheads like you. Grow up and find some worthwhile pu**y after high school.

Damn dogg...
 

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I dont smoke and I got 7 #s tonight at a hs dance. Made out witth 6 of them... 2 at the same time. Had 3 pairs tits in my hands (I moved/removed shirts). I dont smoke pot.
 

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That's actually pretty true.

Highschool is all about social proof, if something is considered "the ultimate cool", and you've got it, you're set.

Just like the other men put it, if you like getting high and have no moral problems with it, then smoke.

If you don't, don't.

If you want you can do a search on "WEED", there's a huge topic with extensive overviews from alot of people including one I wrote.

And uh... here it's pretty different. Weed's not exactly 'cool', the girls don't dig it (if you're around someone with a stoner rap, you get a bad rep - for those wondering bad rep is like the opposite of social proof).

I also can't talk when I'm high, I overanalyze and feel a decline in confidence -- but I do smoke every once in a while because I like comming up with ideias that I couldn't come up with sober.

But it has nothing to do with girls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wanna be cool? Have a mind of your own instead of asking others what to do.
 

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Originally posted by Limitless
All of this DJ stuff is great and may work for some people. Listen to this though guys , If I wanted to be messing around with a bunch of girls all I would have to do is start smoking pot...and continue to be preppy.

Honestly thats what the chicks like around here. I'm ready to do it. My friends know it'll work , but don't think it's worht it to get into that ....

Your thoughts?
wow, i think we have a winner for most useless post ever

What does this have to do with being a dj? This has nothing to do with bettering your game.

if your friends think this will work, then your friends are morons. doing drugs changes nothing about getting girls, it just means you can make friends with all the stoner chicks who will probably just hit you up for cash and weed later on.

trust me on this man, its not worth it. I've known girls like this and their just losers looking for the next high, they don't give a sh!t about you or your feelings.
 
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