"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow what an annoying day!

RSanders219

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Ok, so after a long day of class and work, the side mirror of my car got smashed by a hit and run.. Pissed me off but not that big of a deal. Just another day in the city I suppose.

But then this girl I've been gaming for a good two weeks asked me to come over and chill.. So I did a little later tonight and figured I would try and give her a kiss goodnight. So after we hungout She signed me out and I told her to come outside, gave her a hug and went for the kiss.

She backed away and said "NO! I like ___" so I said "Well, ___ isn't here is he? and you're obviously into me". She said "Not in that way" So I said hey all right that's fine no big deal. Just delete my number from your phone I won't be seeing you around.

This is where things got ugly...

This chick just starts crying her eyes out on a busy sidewalk in the city making ME look like some guy that just completely denied her! Haha. This happened in front of her roomates too. I said to her "Hey it's no big deal right? You'll feel better about it tomorrow" she BEGGED me not to leave and just to talk it out with her, but I just left and acted completely nonchalant about the issue.

Now, I don't really care that this girl didn't have feelings for me.. But she completely lead me on to believe so. I have plenty of attractive friends that are girls that DID NOT do the same things she did.

For example: She asks me what kind of girls I'm into, Play fights/wrestles me, constantly texts me (I only reply when I'm not too busy.) etc.. and out of nowhere tells me she likes this dude I'm friends with when she has barely exchanged more than a few words with him? complete bullsh1t!

Anyways.. In the end, I'm glad I went out swinging, and glad I did not waste too much time on this girl. Case closed.:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AW-alarm!
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Presses Eject button
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And he's safe! Luckely the pilot was well trained!


I had some equal stuff happen to me where she starts crying. I started laughing and told her: "Wow, I didn't know you could cry on command! Do it again *smiles*". She INSTANTLY stopped crying and told me I'm an @sshole - calling people out on their bullsh*t makes you an @sshole nowadays I guess :). Good job bailing out on this one, she was clearly gonna be annoying.
 

RSanders219

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Thanks guys.. It's puzzling though that she went for this dude that's a TOTAL afc. Constantly posts fb statuses about being sad/lonely, has pictures of him just looking completely depressed, has all sorts of blogs and junk like that.

That's women for ya! Haha :p
 
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