"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wow, what a brutal story

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Daily reminder that Sub 5 men are constantly being told they need to get to know women slowly, via shared interests, hobbies, work etc. Meanwhile, if there is even the smallest spark of physical attraction (something sub 5s will never know), people hook up within minutes. BRUTAL. And brutally unfair.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hearing that dude was only invited to 1 party during his stint at uni, and that even this was apparently the result of an error on the part of whoever was throwing said party, was brutal enough to prompt me to tune out. Then resume viewing footage of 6 month old peasant children in rural Nicaragua being devoured by maggots, BEFORE said tykes had completely expired, instead

Dunno that I'm "happier" as a result of my decision, nonetheless this is infinitely less depressing than watching some d-ckwad who maintains a channel titled LoserMaxxing regale those unfortunate enough to stumble across his content with further tales of woe, be it his own or that of folk similar to himself. Let's note: This fella appears to have been born in The US sometime after 1965, possesses a strong command of The English language, has internet access, plus the technical savvy to produce fairly high quality videos

He's among the most privileged coterie of humans in the history of our species, yet he persists in finding ways to be miserable
 
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