"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow. Unbelievable

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahaha agreed. It's pretty straight forward; they're married, he shouldn't even have to ask her to lose weight. It has to be scarcity, if she knew he knew he could get better women, she would have shed the flab immediately.
 

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Mike32ct said:
I love how the advice person rambled on without actually providing any advice lol.

It was like a politician "answering" a question lol.

advice from psychs are like this, they never asnwers directly, they try to your own answers it, they jsut put your history in a diferent way.

if you ask me since he did marry her, it should be for a reason lol, so best would be for him try... no drag her to the gym with him and start to work on, if she refuse, well guess maybe its time to part ways
 

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This guy lingers around the subject, and fails to answer the question...just like every shrink out there out to get your money. I say we prank him, lets all email him an outrageous case, play with it a little, and talk about it here. IN a couple of weeks, we'll reveal ourselves to him. I guess you can tell that I hate shrinks......

found it...here is his email

[email protected]
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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