Wow... ugh.. What do you call this relationship between me and my girl?

[girlsarecrazy]

My girlfriend for 2 months asked for a break to see where our relationship was going as summer nears.

We eventually couldn't handle the break so we declared how emotionally attracted to each other but it was way too serious. We were stuck in a bubble. We then broke off the boyfriend and girlfriend titles and just started hanging out as friends.

We bond really well and are crazy about each other. We still have sex now and she declared that she will not do anything sexually with anybody else but me for now on. But she doesn't want to be g/f and b/f or have strings. She still wants to be with me, have sex, kiss, and do stuff.. but don't make a huge big deal about it to the public. For example: We going to be labeled as single to the public, but we act like were together.

WTF is this?

I'm getting the best parts of the the relationship: fun, happiness, sex, confidence. AND... i don't have to hold her hand!

What the hell do you call this? I'm calling it the "Perfect Summer Relationship" but then i think to myself. This relationship is going to be based off of Jealousy, Mistrust, and no security...

 

[vp171s]

afraid of commitment much? woah
friends with super benefits?

 

[DJDamage]

STOP IT WITH THE "WE DO THIS AND WE THAT"
BULLSh1T.

You are not joined at the hip and you do not share a mind so you really do not know how she really think and I doubt its the same as you. Chicks brain work differently so stop projecting your own thoughts into her.

The reality is that you are infatuated with her. Its not WE decided to take a break but SHE decided to dump you and YOU accepted this offer. Another reality is that the reason SHE still asking for sex is because she is searching for another guy to plow her and committ to him and in the meantime you will do.

The day you stop lying to yourself is that day you will finally realise what is really going on.

DJD

 

[smoke city]

this is the fvcking stupidest thing i have ever seen. man, i think it's pretty clear what she's saying...she wants to keep fvcking you and getting validation while looking for another guy. when she finds one, she will dump you in a millisecond, with ABSOLUTELY NO REMORSE. what are you waiting for?

 

[playboy_supreme]

your looking at this all wrong. it doesnt matter what she does, what she wants, weather she is using you till she finds some one else. what matters is what you want. if YOU want a relationship with this girl you need to make that clear or get rid of her if she doesnt accept. the way i see this from what she has said basically she is giving it up to u rite now no strings attached you should be f**king her and f**king other people. is she complains about this. throw her own words back in her face. if she accepts it then she really did mean no strings attached. if she cant handle the situation SHE created then what are you wasting time with her for?

sounds to me like you do want a relationship and your kidding yourself that if you hang around long enough she will want that to.

 

[Tomatoes]

STOP IT WITH THE "WE DO THIS AND WE THAT"
BULLSh1T.

You are not joined at the hip and you do not share a mind so you really do not know how she really think and I doubt its the same as you. Chicks brain work differently so stop projecting your own thoughts into her.

The reality is that you are infatuated with her. Its not WE decided to take a break but SHE decided to dump you and YOU accepted this offer. Another reality is that the reason SHE still asking for sex is because she is searching for another guy to plow her and committ to him and in the meantime you will do.

The day you stop lying to yourself is that day you will finally realise what is really going on.

DJD

I have to agree with Damage im afriad. He may have been abit harsh but its to the point. She is using you until she finds another bloke in my opinion. Your move....

 

[KarmaSutra]

this is the fvcking stupidest thing i have ever seen. man, i think it's pretty clear what she's saying...she wants to keep fvcking you and getting validation while looking for another guy. when she finds one, she will dump you in a millisecond, with ABSOLUTELY NO REMORSE. what are you waiting for?

Here's my tip: Do everything to this b!tch Rocco Siffredi would do and then follow up with sh!t illegal in Thailand. Clutter up her butter gutter so that the next guy is fvcked to do anything new to the cvmbucket.

 

[Jariel]

The reality is that you are infatuated with her. Its not WE decided to take a break but SHE decided to dump you and YOU accepted this offer. Another reality is that the reason SHE still asking for sex is because she is searching for another guy to plow her and committ to him and in the meantime you will do.

I agree with DJDamage on this too. Sorry dude, but this makes complete sense. I've been in your exact situation and can tell she's using you as a back up until she meets someone else! The great thing about her position is she can pull the "we weren't in a relationship" card to ease her conscience.

Think about it...what other benefit is there to your non-committed relationship? My advice would be to take advantage of the situation yourself, and use HER as your back up, enjoy the sex and confidence while you go in search of other women.

Just be honest with yourself though: this situation is not what you want is it?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

I agree with DJDamage on this too. Sorry dude, but this makes complete sense. I've been in your exact situation and can tell she's using you as a back up until she meets someone else! The great thing about her position is she can pull the "we weren't in a relationship" card to ease her conscience.

Think about it...what other benefit is there to your non-committed relationship? My advice would be to take advantage of the situation yourself, and use HER as your back up, enjoy the sex and confidence while you go in search of other women.

Just be honest with yourself though: this situation is not what you want is it?

I also agree with DJDamage and would reccomend Jariel's approach.

She's trying to have her cake and eat it too..... no strings attached so when Mr. Right comes along, you're out of the picture and she doesn't need to feel the least bit sorry.

Beat her at her own game. Find another girl and dump her..

 

[tihash]

Here's my tip: Do everything to this b!tch Rocco Siffredi would do and then follow up with sh!t illegal in Thailand. Clutter up her butter gutter so that the next guy is fvcked to do anything new to the cvmbucket.

Funniest shyt ever.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Thanks for the help! I know exactly how to play this game. I already have her emotionally attached to me. I personally do not have a strong emotional connection to her. She's falling for me. I'm not falling for her, but i'm acting like I am... hehe. I am starting to play her. I'm def. going to take full advantage of this situation and have it physical only. Meaning i'm going to get laid a lot, while i look for something better. This is going to be funny. I never thought i would be playing a girl like this. But I'm gonna have to. 2 can play this game. Once i find someone that's amazing I will drop her off. And possibly just use her a a booty call haha.

 

[the_great_gaia]

Dude, if you didn't have feelings for her then you wouldn't have posted about her at all.... like, what's happening now wouldn't even matter enough that you'd have to log on here to post it and to see what others will say. Each post on here comes from our insecurities. It is rare to have someone post about something "positive" because everyone posts "negative" story wondering about the situation they have gotten themselves into. Basically, you're looking for help and guidance on what to do with this girl. You have feelings for her.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Of course i still have feelings. But they are on the decline. But i've changed the way I've acted around her. Which is making her feelings rise. I'm overcoming oneitis. It's getting to the point where the girl will do anything I ask.