Wow, some girls in HS are so disrespectful. lol i got clay thrown at me!

[Vice]

So, in my fourth period in school I'm the teachers assistant in Ceramics. There are alot of girls in Ceramics! All I really do is occasionally run an errand for the teacher, or just recycle the used clay. Pretty ****ty, but I'm the teachers assistant only for the girls

Anyway, some of the girls are straight up disrespectful. One minute they'll be sitting there, calm, and then near the end they get a little feisty. Some started to throw clay at me lol. I know for a fact that they just do it because they love me (I've been told that I'm pretty attractive, but I think I still need to work on my inner self) but it really annoys me.

What do you think the best reaction to this is? I started getting visibly annoyed, which then caused more clay to be thrown at me. I couldn't NOT do anything because then it would be just like being walked all over on.

One of the girls right next to me threw a chunk right at my face... this particular one is really aggressive and I think that's pretty hot. But what should I do when she does it again? I was going to throw another chunk back at her but she threatened me... and I backed down LOL. She threw another piece at a guy across the table and I laughed. Oops, I should have called her out on that instead of laughing at him. ****

 

[kdnash82]

Wow.... Girls throw clay right at your face and you think it's ok? You think they find you attractive even though they're throwing clay at your face?

This is hilarious actually. I could just imagine you getting smacked in the face with clay, then laughing it off with some goofy chuckle.

There is a difference between being playful and being an azz. Sounds like they were the later in your case.

If I were you, I would throw clay back in a playful way. I would NOT back down if she threatned me. Treat those the way you want to be treated. If she were to throw it again, I would start the teasing.

"You got a pretty strong arm. You should probably try out for the male baseball team. You could probably beat me in an arm wrestling match. We should probably have you tested for steroids."

The list goes on from here. I would never be amusement for a bunch of girls or guys at any point in my life, unless I choose to amuse them with a joke of my own.

 

[Vice]

Thanks for the info... lol. All the girls in my other classes respect me except for this one. I need to tame this one. I understand that it's after lunch and last period, and things get a little crazy.

But say I DID throw that piece back at her and the other ones, what if she hit me? I don't know what I'd do after that LOL

 

[kdnash82]

But say I DID throw that piece back at her and the other ones, what if she hit me? I don't know what I'd do after that LOL

Hit you how? With a piece of clay, or got up and beat you down in front of all the girls?

If she actually punched you in front of everyone, there is absolutely nothing you can do to recover. If you hit her back, then you're a woman beater. If you do nothing, then you're a puzzy.

The best advice I can tell you in this situation is to be quick. Women telegraph their punches/slaps/whatever a lot more than men do. You should be able to see her hand coming a mile away.

You have two choices to make. Make sure whatever her hand is swinging for isn't there (in other words, duck/dodge/dip/dive and... dodge), or grab it.

I've never hit a girl, but I've restrained plenty from hitting me. You won't be looked at as a woman beater or a puzzy and if done right she'll come across as the crazy woman that she is.

Long story short. Girl gets pissed at something I said. Kept running her mouth. Got even more pissed at what I had to say and swung. I ducked. She swung so hard, it was easy to keep her momentum going in that direction. I spun her around so that her back was facing me, bear hugged her. Quickly picked her up and sat her down on the floor in one smooth move. From here, I let her go and stepped away. Security came running and figured I'd done something to her. I explained how she took a swing at me and I de-escalated the situation. She was removed from the club and all the girls thought I was the coolest guy ever for being able to do all of that without hurting her. Her friends were pissed at me for getting her kicked out though.

If you're not strong enough to restrain a woman, then you really need to start hitting the gym. If you're afraid of a woman hitting you, then you have some other issues you need to work on.

 

[zubs]

^haha
i just imagined some chick playfully punching this dude, then he like breaks her arm in reaction. "you have two choices to make"

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

haha you aren't a pvssy if a girl hits you and you don't hit her back.
I bet you could find something much more interesting than that lol.

for instance, act like you didn't even feel it and make fun of her for being weak.

main point: you're so awesome you don't need to hit a girl. you can beat her with words no sweat. you own her ass haha.

 

[panosha]

tell her the good things your girlfriend does to you

 

[sandman6991]

haha i'd be pissed if i got clay thrown at me

 

[cuzza]

All I really do is occasionally run an errand for the teacher, or just recycle the used clay. Pretty ****ty, but I'm the teachers assistant only for the girls

Those lines sum up your issue.