wow...so what do I do now?

[TxCowboy]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
she heard from the friend (a girl) before she went out with me, yep I have met the BF he is a dweeb and she ignored him in a bar a few weeks ago to talk to me and even ask me if we were going to the movies and I said no and she goes oh why not and i pointed at her BF and she goes were friends...

She flirted with me by sitting really close shoulder to shoulder at the movies and generally acting very couplish with me, and tellling me lots youre funny and laughing at everything I was saying and playing with her like crazy.

Does that help...

so is it best to not contact her again?.

I wouldnt even waste my time with this ho, dude. She's trying to play you against the b/f and see whose gonna win the battle. I dont like that and say - Go find someone else - remember that there are 6 billion people on this planet and she's ONLY 1 of them! Keep searching ....

I didnt read all the articles, but if she's less than 23/24ish , she's prolly not serious about life at all and just wants to play around like the rest of her young ho friends!

Peace out !

 

[tmpgstx]

It helps alot. She likes you. When the rubber hit the road though, and her boyfriend got wind of it, then it seemed she made some excuses. Ironically, she may want to see how much you really do like her, and if she can count on it being enough, may just dump her BF.

Now she's between a rock and hard place, has to protect her feelings but at the same time test you. Knowing you're the better catch could be a bit intimidating at the same time also, and that you may dump her if someone else goes along. Girls think of all these scenerios.

If you really like her, back off a bit and put some pressure on her for a change. I bet she contacts you again, or says hi on chat.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
It helps alot. She likes you. When the rubber hit the road though, and her boyfriend got wind of it, then it seemed she made some excuses. Ironically, she may want to see how much you really do like her, and if she can count on it being enough, may just dump her BF.

Now she's between a rock and hard place, has to protect her feelings but at the same time test you. Knowing you're the better catch could be a bit intimidating at the same time also, and that you may dump her if someone else goes along. Girls think of all these scenerios.

If you really like her, back off a bit and put some pressure on her for a change. I bet she contacts you again, or says hi on chat.

awesome reply...I doubt that she will contact me though, I sent her a text telling her not too and that she was young and an AW and I don't respect those types last night, I think yet again it all comes down too these girls not actually knowing what they want you know...I have looked inside me and I see a hell of a guy that is a lot of fun to be with and is interesting and a thinker but NOT into games, I will admit I do play some but not as much Woman do.

I also think that it's not my time yet but i will be and that these girls that don't dig me are just good practice and help me learn.

I have been single for (I think) 2 years and have had a few dates here and there and one short term r/ship...so all of this is just a learning experience, you know I admit I am rusty but I think I am getting better.

peace

 

[tmpgstx]

Sounds good. Women DO love emotionally strong men though. Why? because women can't control their emotions as well and stay grounded like men can. Use this to your advantage as a man. If you leave her hanging like this, she will contact you (because she really does like you). She'll be wondering why you're not contacting her etc. A woman wants to be desired by a guy she likes, and when it isn't happening, she starts out by doing little things to get his attention.

If she's the right type of girl for a relationship, she'll be good for you, but if she was just hoping you would bang her and forget about it, then you wouldn't want her anyway. Most girls her age go thru several short-terms.

 

[Jaun_Don]

ha ha she has deleted me as her friend on My Space.

 

[tmpgstx]

True to form. You hurt her feelings.

Read this .. how true for most: Especially the second post.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=83349

 

[Jaun_Don]

I don't know what she expects you know bro?, I'm not a puppet or an idiot she got caught out being an Attention ***** and now needs to learn to NOT be that way, Men don't like AW's.

But I think this says it all, she has status listed as single on My Space....

 

[tmpgstx]

Yeah, i hear ya. Single though can often mean just not engaged or married. Single and looking would be different.

She does sound like she's into games though, or a drama queen so to speak. It seems to me alot of the myspace chicks are drama/AWs. They need the attention.

 

[Jaun_Don]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
Yeah, i hear ya. Single though can often mean just not engaged or married. Single and looking would be different.

She does sound like she's into games though, or a drama queen so to speak. It seems to me alot of the myspace chicks are drama/AWs. They need the attention.

yeah but there is an "in a relationship option"