"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Wow! Serious penis problem!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
Cutting off your hoodie removes some of your most sensitive nerve endings. IOW, Sex wont feel as good... ever!
Unless the skin is brushing your ankles when you walk, I say keep it
Unless the skin is brushing your ankles when you walk, I say keep it
what i mean is that it is not rolling back and that may create some prob in the future i think. my friends have their penis opening up but mine is still with teh foreskin attached. will it come off or roll off late? you have it like that?Señor Fingers said:Cutting off your hoodie removes some of your most sensitive nerve endings. IOW, Sex wont feel as good... ever!
Unless the skin is brushing your ankles when you walk, I say keep it
Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
This is a pretty common condition. Just do some googling and you turn up all sorts of useful info
http://www.steadyhealth.com/Foreskin_attached_to_penis_head_t72355.html
http://www.steadyhealth.com/Foreskin_attached_to_penis_head_t72355.html
http://ph.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080422105216AARbVpnThis post is describing a condition known as phimosis. In some cases, the opening of the foreskin is too narrow to pass over the head. In other cases, the foreskin is adhered to the glans (head) of the penis.
Note that in infants and young children, the foreskin is normally adhered to the head of the penis. This is normal, and neither the child nor the parent should attempt to forcibly retract the foreskin. With time, the adhesions will loosen, and the foreskin will be able to move back off the head with only applying gentle pressure. This may not occur until age 12-13.
Phimosis that does not resolve on its own may become a reason on medical concern for several reasons. It may cause tightness which results in pain during erections. As young men become sexually active, they may become self-conscious regarding the appearance of their penis.
The typical medical treatment for phimosis is a combination of gentle retraction exercises and application of a prescribed topical steroid cream. The steroid cream is applied to all surfaces of the foreskin as directed, and the foreskin is gently pulled back as much as is comfortable. The foreskin retraction exercises should be performed at least twice a day.
If the phimosis is creating problems for the child, this treatment can be used as early as age 4-6, depending on the clinical situation. The boy should be taught to perform the retraction exercises himself so that he can obtain maximum retraction but without causing pain.
Phimosis frequently becomes a concern in boys age 10-14. Increasing penis size during puberty can cause phimosis which was not previously painful to become very painful during erections. Boys of this age should be able to meet with their doctor privately to discuss their concerns. While certain low-potency topical steroid creams (like hydrocortisone) are available over the counter, typically high-potency or medium potency topical steroid creams, available only by prescription, work much more quickly and are much more effective.
In cases where the foreskin is not adhered to the head, but is too tight to retract, studies have demonstrated that the use of a topical steroid cream and retraction exercises allow for complete and easy retraction of the foreskin in up to 90% of cases. In 85% cases it requires only 6 weeks of treatment. This treatment is particularly successful with older children and adolescents with non-adhesion phimosis.
Circumcision is rarely necessary for treatment. In phimosis caused by a tight foreskin (without adhesion), only about 2% will require circumcision. Even if circumcision does need to be performed, the child or his parents have the option of choosing how much of the foreskin will remain. Typically, only the tight preputial ring needs to be removed, allowing for most of the foreskin to remain. Sometimes children or the parents opt for total circumcision for cosmetic reasons, but it is medically necessary only in the most severe cases.
Either the child's pediatrician or a urologist can be consulted for the treatment of phimosis. Boys age 10 and over should always be to speak with the physician privately. Boys of this age should also be given the choice of whether or not they wish to undergo circumcision. If circumcision is necessary, it should always be performed by a physician experienced with the procedure. As with any surgical procedure, parents and their children should always seek a second opinion.
Ok, you have no need to be scare or even panic, and this can be easily fixed at home, with a simple routine you can do as your shower and masturbate. In the shower is the best though, as the warm water can encourage relaxation of the skin, and make it easier to work with.
The routine to do is really easy, you simply slide the foreskin back and forth constantly, sort of gliding the foreskin over the glans (head, helmet, etc). When you slide it back, though, you'll want to slide it as far back as it can possibly go without putting you in too much discomfort, and of course, not to the point to pain. Sliding it to the limit like this will allow your foreskin to get used to being pulled back that far, and as your keep pulling it to that point, the discomfort you feel will get less, and less.
The key is to keep pushing it to it's limits, and if you keep up, you'll eventually be able to retract it behind the head, where you'll be able to clean all the nooks and crannies, and since it's loosened enough to go back that far, the gliding action that will provide in masturbation and eventually sex is phenomenal.
The key is patience and persistence, so if you keep at it, you should be good to go, though keep away from any considerations of sex at your age, after all, 14 is a poor age to be a father.
If this stretching routine fails, you can try again, or even see a doctor, and they can provide you with a cream to loosen the foreskin or any number of minor procedures to help with the tightness, all while keeping your foreskin intact. Circumcision is really a last resort in this kinda of case, as it's irreversible, so try all your options before turning to that. Good luck, and have fun curing your tight foreskin.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, I cruise some of the sex forums as well as this one, and there are MANY chicks over there that say that uncircumcised penis sex feels much, much better that circumcised.
From what they say, the extra foreskin provides extra ****oral stimulation and helps them get off easier.
The only downside is that according to many of the chicks, oral sex isn't as pleasurable with uncircumcised penises.
Still, less head is a sacrifice I'd be willing to make for the ability to make women come more easily during intercourse.
I wouldn't worry about that foreskin too much if I were you.
From what they say, the extra foreskin provides extra ****oral stimulation and helps them get off easier.
The only downside is that according to many of the chicks, oral sex isn't as pleasurable with uncircumcised penises.
Still, less head is a sacrifice I'd be willing to make for the ability to make women come more easily during intercourse.
I wouldn't worry about that foreskin too much if I were you.
Well yea of course, it's there for many reasons. I think you're an idiot if you remove it if you don't have any medical condition. Religions are stupid.AKA FLEX said:Dude, I cruise some of the sex forums as well as this one, and there are MANY chicks over there that say that uncircumcised penis sex feels much, much better that circumcised.