"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Theres a girl ive been seeing for a little while now. The problem is things are so hot or cold. For example last night we talked about sex for a while, madeout, and had a blast. tonight, she wanted to hangout again, so i did, and we just watched tv, she was somewhat affectionate, but i didnt even get a kiss. she came and sat in my lap, and laid her head on my shoulder, but the timing or the mood just didnt feel right. I dont know whats going on with her. can anyone help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh boy this sounds familliar......I can only come up with one logical explanation and that is she might be having her period.
Most girls are too shy to tell. She does like u cause otherwise she would not be sitting with u. Or, and girls are girls, she wants to have another kind of attention. The "emotional" kind. Go with it but if this sexless nights continue just ask her "hey sweety, what happened to your lusty self?"
 
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i agree, but i thought it was wierd that i didnt even get a goodnight kiss. she hugged me and held on for a while, and then said goodnight. once again i know normally you would try to squeeze one in there, but for some reason, it did not feel right.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Listen here, she likes you. Just enjoy that and don't look so deep into everything. There is no reason to look for problems where there is no problem to begin with. Don't expect women to be all over you all the time. They need some "emotional time" and just still be the guy in charge /protector figure when that happens, but don't worry and she'll come around. chillax
 
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