"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wow, serious help

lyur45

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Theres a girl ive been seeing for a little while now. The problem is things are so hot or cold. For example last night we talked about sex for a while, madeout, and had a blast. tonight, she wanted to hangout again, so i did, and we just watched tv, she was somewhat affectionate, but i didnt even get a kiss. she came and sat in my lap, and laid her head on my shoulder, but the timing or the mood just didnt feel right. I dont know whats going on with her. can anyone help!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oh boy this sounds familliar......I can only come up with one logical explanation and that is she might be having her period.
Most girls are too shy to tell. She does like u cause otherwise she would not be sitting with u. Or, and girls are girls, she wants to have another kind of attention. The "emotional" kind. Go with it but if this sexless nights continue just ask her "hey sweety, what happened to your lusty self?"
 

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i agree, but i thought it was wierd that i didnt even get a goodnight kiss. she hugged me and held on for a while, and then said goodnight. once again i know normally you would try to squeeze one in there, but for some reason, it did not feel right.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kerensky

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Listen here, she likes you. Just enjoy that and don't look so deep into everything. There is no reason to look for problems where there is no problem to begin with. Don't expect women to be all over you all the time. They need some "emotional time" and just still be the guy in charge /protector figure when that happens, but don't worry and she'll come around. chillax
 
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