"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow. Persistent girl.

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This girl is a friend of a friend who added me on FB. She gets a lot of guys telling her she's hott and hitting on her while she's not even my type. Goes to show you "one man's trash is another man's treasure." Seriously, I look and look at the girl, and I just don't find her attractive. I think she's smart and friendly. That's pretty much it.

Now she sends me messages which I reply with a sentence or two. I don't even ask her any questions. There isn't even any material for her to respond back with and yet she does with tons of questions. Usually if I give girls these short yet civil responses, they back off. Not this one. Should I go along with it or cut her off by just not responding back? I don't want to write a "I'm not interested," if it's just the girl being persistently friendly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
Dude, thats what LJBF is for.


a bj is good even from a fatty.
 
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Well after measuring the size I assume that everything is just okay but i am not taking the risk :))
 
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brother just fvck her already or get a bj at least, don't listen to these clowns either, if a girl is getting ahold of you that much after you giving short answers she is into you in some way
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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