"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow, my ex amazed me

DonJuan_DeRosco

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To the OP, i think you should hit the donor ward for a new set of testicles!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chromeo

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jophil28 said:
Do you understand the consequences of paying a $70 dinner
woah woah woah, thats ridiculous, of course she told me after I took her home and banged her, after I paid. like a proper ho, come on now.

ya this girl brings out the worst in me, complete nut drainer. Turns me into a *****, cant be a man around her. twisted. same as heroine.

Before I met this girl I had a flashes of don juanness. No joke. She came around and I totally lost my nuts, was the reason I came here.

I already knew how to get chicks and still do and ONE TERRIBLE SITUATION brought me here. And I keep letting it stew. Pots off the stove now.

I was being a total b!tch, the breakfast thing was my fault. I deserved it. I could have maned up, not said a word, paid that whole check and said nice ta know ya, small price to pay to get someone out your life.

big difference between b!tching and puting your foot down. I was b!tching.

Thanks for the kick to the nuts guys, they are still there. Anyway I'm done with this sh!t, I got beer to drink.
 

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Chromeo said:
So maybe this is a good example of what happens when you never really break up i.e. still talking every few weeks and going on food dates.
You said it all right here ^^.
 

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Chromeo, she OWNS you, hook, line and sinker. You've got to cut the leash you're attached to and never look back.

OPTIONS are the basis of power. If you have no options now, by cutting the leash you will have created the first step toward having options.

Your allowing her to have power over you is feeding a deep insecurity, obviously. I just re-read your last post and it seems that you're finally ready to move on. I hope so for your sake because she's draining you whether you're with her or whether you're apart.
 
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