"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wow, listen to this bullshivt I heard from her. I need your advice...

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Robert28 said:
...watch out for women who are "seperated" or "just got divorced". they have alot of issues and dont know what the hell they want.
In the past I have been involved with two women who were "separated" or recently divorced and another who was "threatening" to leave her "awful" husband.. AS it turned out they all wanted EXACTLY the same thing ultimately - a guy to rapidly re-inflate their ego, nothing more. They were still angry with their ex's and frequently treated me to stories of how "bad" they all were.
They all responded positively to my AFC side ( which was active back then ).
They all fukked quickly and they all bailed or became difficult and troublesome when they sensed that I actually wanted something from them over and above a quick roll in the sack.

The woman in the OP's story acted exactly like the women in my own history .
She fukked the most active pursuing male because he provided her with the biggest ego boost.
It is that simple.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jophil28 said:
In the past I have been involved with two women who were "separated" or recently divorced and another who was "threatening" to leave her "awful" husband.. AS it turned out they all wanted EXACTLY the same thing ultimately - a guy to rapidly re-inflate their ego, nothing more. They were still angry with their ex's and frequently treated me to stories of how "bad" they all were.
They all responded positively to my AFC side ( which was active back then ).
They all fukked quickly and they all bailed or became difficult and troublesome when they sensed that I actually wanted something from them over and above a quick roll in the sack.

The woman in the OP's story acted exactly like the women in my own history .
She fukked the most active pursuing male because he provided her with the biggest ego boost.
It is that simple.
these types of women and single mothers are the ones i have the worst luck with when it comes to sex. give me a girl with no kids, never been married, and i can get her in bed in one or two dates. i dont know why, just the way its always been with me. also, if you think about what these recently divorced, seperated, or whatever they call it types of women are quick to tell you stories about how bad the guy was. how awful the marrige was, but yet hes a wonderful dad.lol the stories never change, theyre all the same it seems.
 
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