"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, it is way easier to pull in the midwest

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I was in Chicago and Milwaukee for the weekend.
Got the most tinder matches in one setting than I have ever gotten.
I got two lays. Both of the girls initiated everything and weren't stuck up southern belles.
Girls there looked liked they were productive instead of stuck up southern belles that leach off daddy.
I have to go to Colorado and the west coast next lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dhoulmagus said:
I was in Chicago and Milwaukee for the weekend.
Got the most tinder matches in one setting than I have ever gotten.
I got two lays. Both of the girls initiated everything and weren't stuck up southern belles.
Girls there looked liked they were productive instead of stuck up southern belles that leach off daddy.
I have to go to Colorado and the west coast next lol.
Went to Chicago for a weekend and concur, the girls were the easiest ive ever seen lol
 

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I agree on Chicago. Great city, great gaming.

Around the other cities in Illinois, South of I-80 in my neck of the woods, it's hit and miss:

- Galesburg: easy to game but the chicks are skanks. Easy easy lays though. We have a saying that if you have slept with one woman in Galesburg, you have slept with all of them (and every man too)

- Peoria: I call it the sausage fest capital of the USA because of all of the desperate AFCs. And most chicks really do honestly think their \|/ is golden with a diamond for a cl|t. You can get chicks here but I don't think they are worth the trouble.

- Bloomington/Normal: much much better game there , better quality chicks. Good mix of college girls from ISU and single 20s-30s office worker chickies.

- Champaign/Urbana: the game is average here, but it's a great town with a good vibe.

- Springfield: below average game. Little to do. A lot like Peoria but not as bad as far as AFCs and attitude. Not worth your trouble

- Decatur: the whole town just needs to be blown off the map. Not only is there no game, but the whole town is a sh|thole. I avoid that town like an ebola infested airplane.

- Quincy: average game. Their big thing is drag shows and the like, if that's your thing.

- Quad Cities: I hooked up with one chick here once, but I wouldn't call the gaming scene spectacular. But still a great area with lots to do.
 

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Hey logicallefty, my dad's girlfriend is from Galesburg and they go back there once a year during something called "scenic drive". They always invite me to go with them, maybe I should take my California butt out there next time! Sounds like it could be a week of easy lays?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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apprenticedj said:
Hey logicallefty, my dad's girlfriend is from Galesburg and they go back there once a year during something called "scenic drive". They always invite me to go with them, maybe I should take my California butt out there next time! Sounds like it could be a week of easy lays?
Yessir. The Scenic Drive, aka Spoon River Drive, is going on this and next weekend. It's always the first two weekends in October.

I have only gamed in California once so I don't really know what you would be comparing Galesburg too. But yeah the chicks there are pretty easy I think, and pretty friendly in relative terms. Downtown in and around Cherry Street is where most of the action is but there are also some good bars out on Grand Avenue.
 

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Chicago about 7-8 years ago was easy to game chicks. I had a few one night stands. Seems more difficult now....Its a BIG small city, so you will bump in to people you seen before....from school or work, ETC. The gaming IMO is a bit more difficult then it was years back.....Not impossible by any means
 

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@logicallefty:

Awesome but I guess I'll have to wait until next year.


Dhoulmagus said:
Why would you want to leave cali
I like to see different places, even if they're not travel brochure material. Meeting people is always fun.
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
Chicago about 7-8 years ago was easy to game chicks. I had a few one night stands. Seems more difficult now....Its a BIG small city, so you will bump in to people you seen before....from school or work, ETC. The gaming IMO is a bit more difficult then it was years back.....Not impossible by any means
A "BIG small city"? Chicago is the third most populous city in the United States after New York and Los Angeles. There is no small part to it!
 

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Dhoulmagus I'm starting to think you're BPD.

Cali sucks, unless you're white and live in San Diego were the girls are total sloots.

They are very receptive to non-white guys there. On the other hand, if you're in a big city, it is incredibly difficult if you're of Asian descent. If you don't believe me, try being Asian for a day in LA.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dhoulmagus said:
I was in Chicago and Milwaukee for the weekend.
Got the most tinder matches in one setting than I have ever gotten.
I got two lays. Both of the girls initiated everything and weren't stuck up southern belles.
Girls there looked liked they were productive instead of stuck up southern belles that leach off daddy.
I have to go to Colorado and the west coast next lol.
I had something similar happen to me too. I got a little over 30 matches on Tinder here at home in Miami over the span of a week and some change, visited Atlanta for four days and got close to 140 matches. Insane.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Dhoulmagus I'm starting to think you're BPD.

Cali sucks, unless you're white and live in San Diego were the girls are total sloots.

They are very receptive to non-white guys there. On the other hand, if you're in a big city, it is incredibly difficult if you're of Asian descent. If you don't believe me, try being Asian for a day in LA.
I have seen quite a few asian men with white women in CA, it wasn't as common a decade ago but it definitely happen these days. Almost every black guy I know in Cali was in an interracial relationship as well, usually with white women. Can't comment on the middle eastern and indian population there though but it did seem like middle eastern guys were having a rough time in CA.

Also OP, I went to Chicago and my mind was blown at the countless amounts of black guy - white girl couples I saw there. These girls weren't just average looking either, a lot of them were above average and some hot. I can say the same for Phili. Chicago and Phili are the best places in the USA for black men to get quality white women, so many of the cute ones there are open to the BBC.
 

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So Dhoul, can we all agree then that there's nothing wrong with you, you just live around aholes. No more negative posts.
 
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