SeymourCake
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow, isn't she beautiful?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
homie
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Who Dares Win
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I guess OP's point was to prove how fake compliments are on facebook page when it comes of girls complimenting each other.
Personally I would have been better without being shown such "evidence".
Personally I would have been better without being shown such "evidence".
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
zekko
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If she was just ugly, I'd agree. But it looks like she has some sort of disease or something.
I'd like to know the whole story.
Desdinova
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That's what chicks do. They all support each other. Men don't have support systems like that. They have to toughen up and deal with their own 5hit.
FwoGiZ
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Thank god I am a guy... Can you imagine being surrounded by people bull****ting you but trying to support you at the same time?
I am so grateful that I know for a fact that I can get a straight logical direct answer from my best buds and not some fcking delusional bs hoping it superficially inflates my ego.
**** she's ugly .... She must be a nice person tho to get all those compliments? I still pity her
I am so grateful that I know for a fact that I can get a straight logical direct answer from my best buds and not some fcking delusional bs hoping it superficially inflates my ego.
**** she's ugly .... She must be a nice person tho to get all those compliments? I still pity her
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I don't know if she's fully aware. She prolly got brainwashed that what matters is the inside... now she thinks any guy that can't see her beautiful inside is shallow.
Also, she's exposing herself on facebook.... just saying
zekko
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This forum should like this girl, she's not obese.
I wonder how much she would like to see a compliment like that from a male.
Seriously, she looks like she has something like that reverse aging disease or whatever. She's probably a nice person, which is kind of sad.
I wonder how much she would like to see a compliment like that from a male.
Seriously, she looks like she has something like that reverse aging disease or whatever. She's probably a nice person, which is kind of sad.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
zekko
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Just a little joke. I thought it was funny.
zekko
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Eh, too easy.