SeymourCake
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Wow, isn't she beautiful?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Who Dares Win
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I guess OP's point was to prove how fake compliments are on facebook page when it comes of girls complimenting each other.
Personally I would have been better without being shown such "evidence".
Personally I would have been better without being shown such "evidence".
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
zekko
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If she was just ugly, I'd agree. But it looks like she has some sort of disease or something.
I'd like to know the whole story.
Desdinova
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That's what chicks do. They all support each other. Men don't have support systems like that. They have to toughen up and deal with their own 5hit.
FwoGiZ
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Thank god I am a guy... Can you imagine being surrounded by people bull****ting you but trying to support you at the same time?
I am so grateful that I know for a fact that I can get a straight logical direct answer from my best buds and not some fcking delusional bs hoping it superficially inflates my ego.
**** she's ugly .... She must be a nice person tho to get all those compliments? I still pity her
I am so grateful that I know for a fact that I can get a straight logical direct answer from my best buds and not some fcking delusional bs hoping it superficially inflates my ego.
**** she's ugly .... She must be a nice person tho to get all those compliments? I still pity her
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I don't know if she's fully aware. She prolly got brainwashed that what matters is the inside... now she thinks any guy that can't see her beautiful inside is shallow.
Also, she's exposing herself on facebook.... just saying
zekko
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This forum should like this girl, she's not obese.
I wonder how much she would like to see a compliment like that from a male.
Seriously, she looks like she has something like that reverse aging disease or whatever. She's probably a nice person, which is kind of sad.
I wonder how much she would like to see a compliment like that from a male.
Seriously, she looks like she has something like that reverse aging disease or whatever. She's probably a nice person, which is kind of sad.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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Just a little joke. I thought it was funny.
zekko
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Eh, too easy.