Wow! If you can figure this one out props to you...

[Knicknack]

I had made another thread about this girl I've been dating for a month who just left for her college that is 8 hours away. We both agreed to just let eachother have our freedom and we would go see eachother whenever we could. She just left yesterday and I had already bought a plane ticket to see her this coming weekend.

So we went out Thursday and had a great time. We were both on the same page. Evening ended with a long kiss and she said she wanted to see me Friday before she left.

So I talk to her Friday on AIM and she said that she will call me after she eats dinner and let me know when to come over. I wait until 10pm on Friday night before giving up on her and going out with my friends. She never called the entire night and left for college early on Saturday.

She didn't call, text message, or get on AIM all of Saturday. I don't have trouble meeting women, so I really don't care if she is gone forever or not. I've just never seen such rude behavior from someone. If she didn't want to continue the relationship, why didn't she just let me know and not make me buy a damn plane ticket? If I did that to someone I'd not only feel really guilty, but I would want to apologize ASAP.

Because we had such a great month together, I really do believe she will contact me sometime in the future. Needless to say, I won't be dating her again unless she drove to my house and apologized face to face.

Can anyone offer any input?

 

[Santos]

Originally posted by Knicknack
Needless to say, I won't be dating her again unless she drove to my house and apologized face to face. Can anyone offer any input?

Really weird how she left like that without calling you. But DON'T call her. Go meet some other women. You had a great month together, sure. That's it. Maybe one day she'll call you. By then you'll be with someone else. Next her.

 

[T.T. Boy]

I've got it figured out. Women are flaky, fickle, and self-serving.

 

[squirrels]

Maybe "whenever we could" didn't mean you flying out every weekend. Sounds like she wants some space. Remember, college is a plethora of options.

I say give her her space. Play the field a little bit...see if there's anyone comparable out there...and if she wants you to come down for some (hehehe) fun some time, then take it from there.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by T.T. Boy
I've got it figured out. Women are flaky, fickle, and self-serving.

So am I. Your point?

 

[Chief]

Be a MAN

NEXT

She disrespected you by not calling when she said she would.
Don't call her again.
Sounds like she wants to end it but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
She's going to college and there will be plenty of guys right there...without the hassle of traveling.
Let it go, lick your wounds and Learn.

 

[Bonhomme]

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Just how far have you gone with her?

You've been "going out" for a month, but the evening ended up with a long kiss, nothing along the lines of "after a long, hot night of passionate lovemaking," or anything like that.

If you've been dating for a month without intimacy, I'd take it as a "NEXT" from her. She probably wanted you to step up to the plate, but it didn't happen.

If, on the other hand, you have been doing a lot more than just kissing, there a many other possibilities, and I'm just as confused about it as you. She could have even been testing your interest, seeing if you would contact her, or even if you would call her on her bull****. Or perhaps she just doesn't want a long-distance relationship at all. Or she may have just been taking advantage of the opportunity while it was there. Who knows?

Regardless, it's best not to contact her. She could be a booty call if she contacts you herself.

 

[kickman72]

let her go

i went out with a girl for 2 months then she didn't contact me for a week called me and we agreed to go out the next day.... i never heard from her again. just forget about her and meet some other women