“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wow, I'd be stupid not to make a move! need some advice

griffon65

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Ok heres the background story guys. I'm walking around my college campus a year ago and all of a sudden I see a girl who physically has everything I look for in a girl. So I pass her in the hall, I'm amazed for a couple of minutes and then totally forget about her because I never see her again.

Flash forward a year and she just happens to be in my new class. At this moment I wasnt really looking for anything so I didnt hit on her. She seemed very shy and literally didnt talk to anyone in the class. But I thought I'd just talk to her a couple of times and make friends in case I'm ever am looking for something. So I did that and eventually I was like the only person in that class she would talk to and acknowledge. We didnt talk enought to be good friends, just acquintances. Then class ended and I didnt see her again.

Flash forward to the present. So I go into my new class and shes in it again. This time I'm looking for something so I was totally gonna ask her to hang out. But I didnt have to. The teacher of the class put us in groups today and asked us to exchange numbers so we can work on our project. Surprise, surprise shes in my group. So I have her number w/o asking.

Now I wanted to ask all of you what you would do in my situation. And I want to tell you what I plan on doing to get some feedback on if i'm doing anything wrong.

I'm usually not shy about asking someone out that i'm interested in. I'm not sure if shes interested but I havent gotten any signals that says shes not. So I got her number today and I plan to call her tomm, talk for a lil but and then ask her to get together and hang out with me.

If she doesnt pick up the phone for w/e reason then I plan on her just asking her to hang out the next time we have class. Heres where I have a question. After class shes always walks with a friend(girl). Would it seem weird if I asked her out in front of her friend?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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snintel

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Not sure what you're asking. This whole site is devoted to seducing girls from start to finish... you're at the start... :confused:
 

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Just say, "We should hang out, to get the project down!"j

She'll know what you mean. If you dont want her friend to hear this then, tell the HB during class or say,"HB i need to talk to you," and pull her away.
 

griffon65

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What I'm asking is that "is what i'm planing to do in this situation the best way to handle it?", "am I doing anything wrong?", "What would you do in this situation" and "based on the situation would it be weird for me to ask her to hang out in front of her friend?"
 
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