"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wow i took a big hit tonight...

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went to the football game, this girl that i like alot was there.. she has been leading me on so much iguess, half time comes and her boyfriend comes... now i knew she had a boyfriend but idk i was just pretending that she didnt before cause things were so good i gues... i have a gf also so w/e...

well her bf came and then my night went downhill from there, i did the dj thing and ignored her and starting talking to other girls by me and stuff, but i just couldnt help feeling down,

Question - Does anyone have any tips on how to get her away from her bf and start liking me even more? I know this is VERY afcish... but i dont want any post saying 'next her' , i know that already.. im just not giving up yet i really like her
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just show that you,re a better guy than her bf ... It's basically the only thing you can do, cuz in the end, SHE's the one that'll be deciding.

The worst thing you could do would be to talk **** of her bf, that'll simply make you look jealous and weak, and thus lower your value in her eyes. So, keep going the way you were, and AMOG him.

P.S. : is this the same chick you're talking about as the one in your other post ? ("WTF is wrong with me" ?)
 

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Maybe you could befriend her BF, and her. idk, I mean I am not much for the highschool drama thing, it's weird, people haev some weird ideas in HS, and I don't know.

do I sound high? I am just tired. lol. let me think.

So basically, work on finding other girls that you ar attracted to, so you don't just focus on her. Well that's what I do, and I know lots of different girls, and I focus on them equally.
 

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I'd say the only reason you want her is because she has a boyfriend, and that it'll be quite the challenge. Although Its your choice, but before you try just think, is she really worth it, or a you a drama junkie and just want to stir a hornets nest?
 

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yeah, this is the same girl from my other post, i dont have drama in my life about girls, ever, even now, it doesnt really bother me it just hurts,


today im not gonna talk to her at all, and in school monday im gonna ignore her all day, and the next day i will let her approach me, is that ok?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Be friend with your enemy, to stay close and get the insight info. Use your enemy to your adventage. (I'm in the same situation so dont get discourage or anything, as of right now I'm in the process of stealin this girl from this guy from my schoo. lol)
 

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Originally posted by MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
Be friend with your enemy, to stay close and get the insight info. Use your enemy to your adventage. (I'm in the same situation so dont get discourage or anything, as of right now I'm in the process of stealin this girl from this guy from my schoo. lol)
I almost feel bad when I befriend a girl's boyfriend while getting ready to steal her away from him. Just a few weeks ago I had a boyfriend trust me to the point where he kept asking me to ask his girl all kinds of questions and ****. Oh the fun I had, he wouldn't have lasted long anyway, the girl goes through AFCs like toliet paper.

Also while talking **** about her boyfriend doesn't work what works for me is telling a few of my mates who in return tell more and more people (while not using my name) and within a few days shes hearing from other people what a douche her boyfriend is and no one wants to be going out with a douche.
 

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this guy goes to a different school and i see him like once every month... im just gonna keep doing what im doing and see what happens
 

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I know it's hard to like her BF...but really, if you start talking **** about him and you start using tactics to "take her away" from him, you'll feel bad about it later. Jealousy does things to our mind. Try not to feel down about it (I know it's hard but it's not impossible). Unless the guy is a real jerk, you'll realize that he doesn't deserve anything bad from you just because he has the girl you want
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by i am me
I know it's hard to like her BF...but really, if you start talking **** about him and you start using tactics to "take her away" from him, you'll feel bad about it later. Jealousy does things to our mind. Try not to feel down about it (I know it's hard but it's not impossible). Unless the guy is a real jerk, you'll realize that he doesn't deserve anything bad from you just because he has the girl you want
nice...was about to say the same thing
 

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if you have a g/f and are still looking for something on the side then you have some things to work out.
 
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