"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow... i think this site is really helping

foomee

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i've been on this site for the past two months, as well as been reading all the guides and everything. i haven't really put them to use... and i'm actually really not trying to get any girl specific, actually no girl at all. but somehow i'm attracting all these girls. one wants to flat out f*** me this weekend.. another wants me to ask her out, another keeps hitting on me and madeout with me once, and my ex... who dumped me.. wants me back. originally saying i was too much of a nice guy. she wanted a bad boy. and ya... now she wants me back. so it's like haha wow.. maybe this stuff does work? or maybe i'm just confident. but either way, thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tmpgstx

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aaahhhh it's good to be king!
 

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sometimes you wonder if the posts here are real or someone just trolling the forums
 
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