"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wow I really pulled dj last night..new years eve..LR

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Ok first ive read some of you people say negative things about cold approaches in public and how they usually flake if you get the #. Ok so this is the end result
of my FIRST cold approach since reading coming to this site and trying to improve my game..and this approach was VERY rough

See http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136646

Ok to sum it up.. got the # from chick in grocery store Ill call Sarah...text her 4 days later in the daytime...text back and forth for awhile...she gets off work at 10 that night and text me to see what i was up too..after hemming and hawing with her about me stopping over to watch a movie she decides to let me..tried some minor kino didnt f-close cause i was tired and really not in the mood...she texts me new years eve to see where i was going tells me shes going to a local bar with a big group of people tells me if i get bored at my party to stop up and meet her..party that i was at had no Hbs some i go to meet her by myself around 1.

Get there shes hanging on me all night ..Damn she was WAY interested or drunk or both..shes with about 12 people including Chick ill call KIM A HB8....Kim is WAY drunk and loud and bositerous with BANGING ass..We close bar she invites me to come over i follow there limo back to Sarahs ..everyone leaves except me Sarah and Kim...Kim asks me if i had any hot friends and to call them over..I call a few people they dont answer..Sara at one point goes to the bathroom and kim brushes up against me and says I WOULD F**K THE HELL OUT OF YOU BUT YOUR WITH MY GIRL:confused: . ..i say nothing it threw me off guard..Me and sara go up stairs to go to bed kim sleeps downstairs on the couch..Sara falls alsleep almost right away..I nudge her and try to wake her but she is out..Im contemplating going down stairs to try and F**k her girl..I try to be VERY quiet getting out of bed and going downstairs I kept pausing cause everytime i slid off the bed i think i wake her..I get downstairs Kim is sleep..I figure ill use an excuse that i was getting something to drink..

me: (taps her to wake her up)
kim: (looks surprised) asks whats up
me: told her i was thirsty and i decided to see what she was up to
kim: im sleeping duh.. ( gets up to use the bathroom)
Me: (I sit beside the couch)
Kim: (comes back) after asking is sara sleep and did i f*k her asks do i wanna sleep on the couch with her
YOU KNOW WHERE THIS IS GOING GUYS:woo:
make out for about 5 min she then goes down on me and then gets on top:)
(dammit i was a lil too quick bout 5 min..oh well..):down:
She falls asleep i CREEP back upstairs end up running into the bedpost sara wakes i tell her i had to use the bathroom she was sleep the whole time.
(considers trying to f**k sara but i was content plus i was afraid shed go down on me and smell pu***y) lol

In the morning sara starts texting someone and i could tell from the noise shes texting kim downstairs...saras making funny faces as she texts back and forth i wondering is kim ratting me out and planning how i was gonna HIGHTALE it outta there lol..nope she didnt there talking about breakfast...
They invite me to breakfast i say no thanks they go.. i go home....Oh and i did grab kims phone when she wasnt looking and called my phone so id have the # i might wanna tap that again


Analysis..Girls are full off Sh*t after hearing all night how how they have been best friends for 10 years and kim telling sara how much she loves her she goes and sleeps with the guy she was with with minimal effort from him.

I was really nervous about waking kim i didnt know how she would react..I think it is NATURAL to have negative thoughts when approaching or first trying something like this on a chick ...I think you should acknowledge these thoughts but in in the end as long it is legal and totally not immoral to
JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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