"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WOW i might be screwed

Crazy Asian

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so all i need to do is to send my act scores to the colleges i applied to.
i thought they were just gonna send the colleges an e-mail thing over the internet.
but it says it takes like 6 days to send the scores.....
WTF today is the deadline, anyone know if this means i won't make the deadline?
i already sent in everything else....
SH!T
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Most high schools have the act scores listed on their transcripts. If you sent a transcript in chances are very high they got your scores as well. Perhaps check with your HS if you did.
 

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since when are college apps due in feb? your app will not be reviewed w/o your ACT score or SAT score
 

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Don't worry, the college application process is still a very human process. Call them up and likely they will be very understanding. The fact you submitted everything else already means they already have enough material and it will take some time for them to sort everything (I used to work in the admissions office, not very high up, but I know the process). Though I am a little confused, aren't of the school deadlines Jan 15 or Jan 1st?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheHumanist said:
Don't worry, the college application process is still a very human process. Call them up and likely they will be very understanding. The fact you submitted everything else already means they already have enough material and it will take some time for them to sort everything (I used to work in the admissions office, not very high up, but I know the process). Though I am a little confused, aren't of the school deadlines Jan 15 or Jan 1st?
yeah they mostly are.
but i'm sort of a huge procrastinator.
i looked for the latest due dates :)
 
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