"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, I just turned down sex

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Nexus Polaris

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I must be evolving. My last one night stand just texted me out of the blue. We had a short little conversation, and she asked what I was doing tonight. I told her I had plans (which I did, but I didn't really want to hang out with her tonight anyway).

I'm actually more interested in going out and getting potentially shot down by HB10s all night than taking a sure thing with somebody I've already had.

This is progress, right?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr. Wolf

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Yes, because you had plans and you followed them.. Instead of detouring.. Means you're not desprate for the thing.


Though. Get it with her some other time when you want to. It be fun to get it on with her again when you want it.
 
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