The past week, idk why, but one of my social groups, what i would consider to be my 'main' group has suddenly dropped me. They exclude me and it's obvious. I dont' really know why. I'll give you the background story
There's this club that all my friends wanted to go to. On sundays they have teen night, so they all decided we were going there. I said, 'maybe' because it's sort of far away and my parents don't want me out somewhere far away. I asked, and they said no. They all go, have a great time, and i get a call from one of my bros asking to hang out. So i went bowling and spent the night with him. It was fun. The next day i get texts asking me what i did, and i tell them. They get pissed. I mean, what is this? I'm not allowed to have other friends? They think I ditched them, but i obviously didn't. So the days pass by and I see their fb statuses. They hang out, they go to breakfast, lunch, movies, dinner, my entire group. And for some strange reason I'm never notified. The entire past week and a half. I gave them the benefit of the doubt because i had to babysit on the week days, but last night was the last straw.
I was texting one of my buddies gf's whose out of town. She texted me and asked what i was doing. I said playing xbox. And she asked why i wasn't at the movies with ALL of them. I told her to ask her bf. She's one of my close friends and she was really mad. I knew at that point she was gonna guilt him into hanging out with me so i went ahead and made plans with other friends just in case. So today i get a text from one of my 'friends' in that group asking if i want to go ice skating. I said, "I don't think i can, I have plans." and he said, "you don't think?" and i said, "I can't. After you get excluded for a week straight you start making plans with other people." and he said, "We didn't exclude you, you were babysitting." and i said, "really, i was babysitting last night? How was the movie?" and he said, "I don't know what to say" and i said, "You really do. Say what you really want to say to me because you obviously have some **** with me." and he said, "I'm sorry." and i said, "No you aren't dude. You aren't sorry, you just got caught." he never replied
an hour later this attention ***** whose in that group texted me and said, "Hey, wanna go ice skating with us?" and i said, "No" and she said, "Why not?" and i said, "Plans." and she said, "k..." and i said, "It's gonna be a blast." she never replied. I one worded her because i know attention *****s HATE that. I'm sick and tired of their bull****. I didn't do anything wrong, and they're trying to punish me for having other friends. Reality check, the world doesn't revolve around them. It's really just getting on my nerves. I don't know what i'm supposed to do. I pretty much gave them a subtle "**** you"
There's this club that all my friends wanted to go to. On sundays they have teen night, so they all decided we were going there. I said, 'maybe' because it's sort of far away and my parents don't want me out somewhere far away. I asked, and they said no. They all go, have a great time, and i get a call from one of my bros asking to hang out. So i went bowling and spent the night with him. It was fun. The next day i get texts asking me what i did, and i tell them. They get pissed. I mean, what is this? I'm not allowed to have other friends? They think I ditched them, but i obviously didn't. So the days pass by and I see their fb statuses. They hang out, they go to breakfast, lunch, movies, dinner, my entire group. And for some strange reason I'm never notified. The entire past week and a half. I gave them the benefit of the doubt because i had to babysit on the week days, but last night was the last straw.
I was texting one of my buddies gf's whose out of town. She texted me and asked what i was doing. I said playing xbox. And she asked why i wasn't at the movies with ALL of them. I told her to ask her bf. She's one of my close friends and she was really mad. I knew at that point she was gonna guilt him into hanging out with me so i went ahead and made plans with other friends just in case. So today i get a text from one of my 'friends' in that group asking if i want to go ice skating. I said, "I don't think i can, I have plans." and he said, "you don't think?" and i said, "I can't. After you get excluded for a week straight you start making plans with other people." and he said, "We didn't exclude you, you were babysitting." and i said, "really, i was babysitting last night? How was the movie?" and he said, "I don't know what to say" and i said, "You really do. Say what you really want to say to me because you obviously have some **** with me." and he said, "I'm sorry." and i said, "No you aren't dude. You aren't sorry, you just got caught." he never replied
an hour later this attention ***** whose in that group texted me and said, "Hey, wanna go ice skating with us?" and i said, "No" and she said, "Why not?" and i said, "Plans." and she said, "k..." and i said, "It's gonna be a blast." she never replied. I one worded her because i know attention *****s HATE that. I'm sick and tired of their bull****. I didn't do anything wrong, and they're trying to punish me for having other friends. Reality check, the world doesn't revolve around them. It's really just getting on my nerves. I don't know what i'm supposed to do. I pretty much gave them a subtle "**** you"