"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wow!! I got two numbers in one day lol

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It feels good lol.

So anyways there was this prom assembly today at my school, and during it I was havin fun where I was sitting, just bein myself and makin people laugh at stupid things. I wasn't outta control or anything. So anyways this one girl that I used to be kinda friends with is sittin in front of me, and she looks back a couple of times to tell me something or to laugh at something I said. Well anyways near the end of it she turns around and tells me to put my number in her phone, so i'm like ok. I put my number in and then call my phone so that I have her number. Yeah maybe it doesn't count and maybe it does but oh well.

So with the next number.

I've been talking to some girl on myspace who used to go to my school but then transferred. I didn't really know her when she was at my school, I barely met her a couple weeks ago. So I ask for her number and it goes like this.

me:lol ok, hey do you have a cell?
her:yup yup
me:lol well..you should give me your number
her:you should give me ur #
me:idk you'll probably just add it to your collection lol
her:heck yes lol
me:lol
her:wellz idk, call meeeee @*** ****

So todays been good lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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