"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wow!! I got two numbers in one day lol

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It feels good lol.

So anyways there was this prom assembly today at my school, and during it I was havin fun where I was sitting, just bein myself and makin people laugh at stupid things. I wasn't outta control or anything. So anyways this one girl that I used to be kinda friends with is sittin in front of me, and she looks back a couple of times to tell me something or to laugh at something I said. Well anyways near the end of it she turns around and tells me to put my number in her phone, so i'm like ok. I put my number in and then call my phone so that I have her number. Yeah maybe it doesn't count and maybe it does but oh well.

So with the next number.

I've been talking to some girl on myspace who used to go to my school but then transferred. I didn't really know her when she was at my school, I barely met her a couple weeks ago. So I ask for her number and it goes like this.

me:lol ok, hey do you have a cell?
her:yup yup
me:lol well..you should give me your number
her:you should give me ur #
me:idk you'll probably just add it to your collection lol
her:heck yes lol
me:lol
her:wellz idk, call meeeee @*** ****

So todays been good lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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