improvingdonjuan
Senior Don Juan
hey DJ's Im in the stage where certain DJ traits come naturally, C+F, neg hits, i know when i make a mistake, i can read body language, i can read IL, I got the balls to aproach, but there are somethings that i need to learn/incorporate into my personality.
anyway my dj traits come naturaly, so i basically dj every girl around me (just flirting, practicing some dj stuff) so its no wonder that at my workplace i flirt with every girl , and even asked out a couple of them, even after things havent worked out in our dates due to my inexperience (like the 21 year old chick, or the 20 year old) we are friends (its fine with me cause i next them but keep them just to have fun at work and to help me out or whatever)
well i got totaly played by this 32 year old,married woman, she is a flirt, an attention hungry chick, i am aware of this because i know and always knew that we would have a lot of fun flirting and it was a great way for me to practice but nothing would ever happen. so let me tell you how i got played and beaten back into a nice guy
her face is really pretty, but she is chubby,so i would neg her and do my C+F i would kino her alot too, we would flirt so much, and we had lots of fun, i kinoed her but when i turned it up was when i once spanked her and she lid up and seem like she really enjoyed that, so i did it like 3 more times in three different ocasions and she let me. i touch her breasts too and she lets me do that, i touch her legs, we hug, i once even touch her p*ssy and she let me. she would hug me, kino me and all that
but all this fun changed when once i said " hey (the 21 year old's name) if your team wins i will take you to that cofe place you love so much but if mine wins you will take me somewhere fun" and the pretty woman got all red so i told her jokingly not to get jelous that she would have her chance too.
after that day she changed, she got more distant, she kinoed me less,so i started doing something i know i should not have done (i talked to her more, i was persuing while she was backing away) then i realized it and i backed off totaly, but i didnt do it gracefully (i still dont know how to back off but not appear mad, even if im not i appear like im mad cause i dont talk to them i avoid them etc.) we talked but not so much i would be kinda insulting in my negging so she would return it (it was kind of fun). but one day i was walking past her in a hurry like if she was not there so when i said hi she ignored me so i did too, we met up while doing something and she said that i went by and didnt even say hi so i answered " would you like me to go around and look for you before clocking in just to say hi?" she said "yes (smiling" so i said "you are not my girlfriend, even if you were" (with a smart ass tone) so i left.
she went to look for me later and she said "please, dont hurt me any more, you always hurt my feelings" she said it with a really sad face so i huged her and answer "come on dont be sad", but deep down i felt bad (AFC coming out) i felt guilty, sad and many other feelings. i went to look for her and i said " do you really feel hurt ?" she said "yes" and brought out the girlfriend comment she said that she sometimes wanted to cry, I have never been told this so i said i was sorry i didnt mean to hurt her and that she was the girl i like to hang out the most etc. so i ran my hands down her cheek and told her to smile and she got all red and smiled.
i thought that was settled, but no, me naturally being a smart ass would say other comments and she would act sad, and hurt by them. she asked me for a favor and i said no cause i didnt feel like doing it and she got mad, sad, puzzled etc she said " i will never forgive you for what you did to me" i said "i dont care you are the one who gets mad" whe didnt talk for a while, (cause i would help her sometimes but at the same time i would not do what she asked me to do or if she asked me for a favor i would do it sometimes) so her reaction was sort of a surprise. so i asked her if her tantrum had passed and she starting blabing about how mean i am and how i always hurt her feelings so told her she had a way of pissing me off sometimes to the point where i thought to myself "stupid woman" (yeah that was harsh but i was kinda mad) so she sarted tearing up and was about to cry, i felt bad and huged her and asked her to be friends she would not piss me off and i would be careful of what i would say to her in the future so i gave her a big hug she made a mistake with what she was doing and joked " see you got me all nervous"
well finally yesterday we were both more carful but i still used my c+f (not the neg hitting anymore) but i neged her with out thinking about it and she got all sad , so again like an AFC i went and tried to confort her we talked we joked, but this time i really went AFC I told her that she was the only girl that had ever made me feel this way so guilty and walking on eggshells and that she took me too seriously and i probably did too etc i felt bad i huged her then i said noone had ever made me feel this way so she joked and said "and its only on the feelings wait till i really make you feel something noone else has ever done" so i said "yeah you might be able to teach me some stuff (me being 18 and her 32) so we joked sexually for a while and she talked about me being espontaneus in my responses while she could do that, i grabbed her leg and got really close to her p*ssy and said i could be espontaneous in other stuff too. so we joked and stuff, i touched her breast jokingly she seemed ok with it. anyway i smelled her neck and hair ran my hands down her hair and she seemed ok with it, but i know she probably lost respect for me after opening up and blabing about my feelings and how she noticed i get soft when i think i hurt someones feelings.
long ass post but how would you guys handle this , when either she is acting (by preteding to be hurt and crying on cue) or she really is hurt with my personality but she use to joke by negging me too before and all of a sudden she is so sensitive and making me act like a freaking AFC.
anyway my dj traits come naturaly, so i basically dj every girl around me (just flirting, practicing some dj stuff) so its no wonder that at my workplace i flirt with every girl , and even asked out a couple of them, even after things havent worked out in our dates due to my inexperience (like the 21 year old chick, or the 20 year old) we are friends (its fine with me cause i next them but keep them just to have fun at work and to help me out or whatever)
well i got totaly played by this 32 year old,married woman, she is a flirt, an attention hungry chick, i am aware of this because i know and always knew that we would have a lot of fun flirting and it was a great way for me to practice but nothing would ever happen. so let me tell you how i got played and beaten back into a nice guy
her face is really pretty, but she is chubby,so i would neg her and do my C+F i would kino her alot too, we would flirt so much, and we had lots of fun, i kinoed her but when i turned it up was when i once spanked her and she lid up and seem like she really enjoyed that, so i did it like 3 more times in three different ocasions and she let me. i touch her breasts too and she lets me do that, i touch her legs, we hug, i once even touch her p*ssy and she let me. she would hug me, kino me and all that
but all this fun changed when once i said " hey (the 21 year old's name) if your team wins i will take you to that cofe place you love so much but if mine wins you will take me somewhere fun" and the pretty woman got all red so i told her jokingly not to get jelous that she would have her chance too.
after that day she changed, she got more distant, she kinoed me less,so i started doing something i know i should not have done (i talked to her more, i was persuing while she was backing away) then i realized it and i backed off totaly, but i didnt do it gracefully (i still dont know how to back off but not appear mad, even if im not i appear like im mad cause i dont talk to them i avoid them etc.) we talked but not so much i would be kinda insulting in my negging so she would return it (it was kind of fun). but one day i was walking past her in a hurry like if she was not there so when i said hi she ignored me so i did too, we met up while doing something and she said that i went by and didnt even say hi so i answered " would you like me to go around and look for you before clocking in just to say hi?" she said "yes (smiling" so i said "you are not my girlfriend, even if you were" (with a smart ass tone) so i left.
she went to look for me later and she said "please, dont hurt me any more, you always hurt my feelings" she said it with a really sad face so i huged her and answer "come on dont be sad", but deep down i felt bad (AFC coming out) i felt guilty, sad and many other feelings. i went to look for her and i said " do you really feel hurt ?" she said "yes" and brought out the girlfriend comment she said that she sometimes wanted to cry, I have never been told this so i said i was sorry i didnt mean to hurt her and that she was the girl i like to hang out the most etc. so i ran my hands down her cheek and told her to smile and she got all red and smiled.
i thought that was settled, but no, me naturally being a smart ass would say other comments and she would act sad, and hurt by them. she asked me for a favor and i said no cause i didnt feel like doing it and she got mad, sad, puzzled etc she said " i will never forgive you for what you did to me" i said "i dont care you are the one who gets mad" whe didnt talk for a while, (cause i would help her sometimes but at the same time i would not do what she asked me to do or if she asked me for a favor i would do it sometimes) so her reaction was sort of a surprise. so i asked her if her tantrum had passed and she starting blabing about how mean i am and how i always hurt her feelings so told her she had a way of pissing me off sometimes to the point where i thought to myself "stupid woman" (yeah that was harsh but i was kinda mad) so she sarted tearing up and was about to cry, i felt bad and huged her and asked her to be friends she would not piss me off and i would be careful of what i would say to her in the future so i gave her a big hug she made a mistake with what she was doing and joked " see you got me all nervous"
well finally yesterday we were both more carful but i still used my c+f (not the neg hitting anymore) but i neged her with out thinking about it and she got all sad , so again like an AFC i went and tried to confort her we talked we joked, but this time i really went AFC I told her that she was the only girl that had ever made me feel this way so guilty and walking on eggshells and that she took me too seriously and i probably did too etc i felt bad i huged her then i said noone had ever made me feel this way so she joked and said "and its only on the feelings wait till i really make you feel something noone else has ever done" so i said "yeah you might be able to teach me some stuff (me being 18 and her 32) so we joked sexually for a while and she talked about me being espontaneus in my responses while she could do that, i grabbed her leg and got really close to her p*ssy and said i could be espontaneous in other stuff too. so we joked and stuff, i touched her breast jokingly she seemed ok with it. anyway i smelled her neck and hair ran my hands down her hair and she seemed ok with it, but i know she probably lost respect for me after opening up and blabing about my feelings and how she noticed i get soft when i think i hurt someones feelings.
long ass post but how would you guys handle this , when either she is acting (by preteding to be hurt and crying on cue) or she really is hurt with my personality but she use to joke by negging me too before and all of a sudden she is so sensitive and making me act like a freaking AFC.