wow i got good news!

[The Columbus Myth]

and bad......


good first I GOT INVITED 2 THE ALL GIRLS SCHOOL'S WINTER FORMAL

bad i got the feeling that im a back up date... ok its more than a feeling cuz @ the party i met her @ she invited one of my buddys who was already going w/ a girl as friends

ok so next week im tossed a bone (or invite wat eva) and i bite on

well happens shes my case of one its @tm (since before i got my invite)

i want to be more than a back up date and i want to get this girl:cuss:



so heres the plan (needs work and advice)

im gonna go all out to impress her come saturday
got a super nice suit (need it for 2 other things after the dance so my moms ok with the price) gonna get the flower thing(corsage?sp?) and maybe sumthing else(should i?) and my mom says bring a flower for her mom too (do i or not?) HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


i think this girl is an HB7 or 8 (man that black dress she was wearing when we met @ the party earned an HB8 in my opinion)
my friends think shes crazy but hell all the girls i like are! (i like crazy girls makes it fun)

HELP guys i need it!!!

 

[IceCream]

First of all, being the "back up date" isn't as bad as most people tend to think of it. This is your chance to put yourself to the ultimate test. Do not, i repeat, Do not go to the dance with her having the mind set of "I must impress her so she will like me". Go to the dance with her and think of how great of a guy you are and what she's missing. Show her how much of a great guy you are and what she is missing.

As for the flowers, don't get her flowers especially if she's hot. You don't want her to think you're just a nice sweet boy listening to what mommy advices you. (and btw, dont listen to your mom unless she's a dating guruu). And i'd advice to only get the corsage if she has one for you (maybe buy one and don't give it to her unless she gives you one).

And seeing that you love crazy girls and she is one, BE CRAZY. Have a good time man that should be your main focus.

 

[THE_ADDMAN]

atta boy! show those girls how we DJs play !

 

[The Columbus Myth]

goos advice ty ice cream

and dont worry Add i think ill have this one in the bag before the end of saturday nite

 

[Kev07]

buying flowers for her mother seems interesting.

bring up flowers and be like "no these aren't for you!" and give to her mother as she is reaching for them. works even better if you say she's crazy as you say.

but if you do that you would really have to pull off that those flowers really are for her mother, and not a slide around to giving her flowers without looking like a afc

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

well firstly-YOU ARE NOT EVEN DATING THIS GIRL OR GOING OUT WITH HER
this is just a prom and if you are just a backup, you probably wont see her again after the prom, so i suggest not spending so much, you are going in too far with with girl, i bet you havent even kissed her.
Just do as other guys do, if you are the fall guy then make sure you have back up, just in case you get the suit and everything and she decides to take another guy. So prepare a group of friends to go with just in case.
And stop trying to make as if you are going out with her, shes not even your GF. THIS IS A AFC MISTAKE

 

[Elky]

Yes, Zerotwoonenine. He would be making a big mistake if he buys all those presents however it is not AFC to have fun with a girl you like (even if she doesn't like you back). You can gain experience from learning from your falls. Chances are if he does everything right, she might come to a realization that she 'read' him wrong. Its people like you, Zerotwoonenine, that think negatively and in effect, give the worst advice.

Obviously he likes the girl and she shows no interest in him (from what i've read). But to tell him to turn around and think of himself badly (because he is not going out with her is a total AFC mindset). DJ's all make mistakes and make our falls. The greatest DJs of them all can make ["seemingly impossible situations, the greatest oppurtinities"].