"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow...I casually browsed YouTube and...

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I found out that these girls have group text on all the time. They have like a group forum constantly on. And they get mad if you leave the group text.
I understand help forums, but I'm not constantly on here 24/7.

Then...I saw some shut about the difference between man and woman...and that was some hypocritical shyt.

I'm going back to viewing comedy and gym shyt.

It's garbage out there that's super popular with girls. No wonder really good ones don't want to commit to life's ups and downs with men because they viewing some cap lady spewing nonsense just to get 5 million views.

I hope this is just a face of social media cuz for real. All we need to do is work, take care of our health and family, and maybe volunteer from time to time.
But then again, it's all about the cash money nowadays.
Thanks for letting me vent. I'm good now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What?
 

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I basically clicked on the wrong YouTube videos and it scared me straight.
I now know why some women behave like they do. I have seen what they like to watch.
 

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I hope u r not bring sarcastic. I really do feel better. It showed me that no matter what I do or how I do it, there will still be thousands upon thousands of people who will criticize and possibly shame anything and or everything I might possibly do.
I started to think I was becoming narcissistic. But I'm back on solid footing now.
 

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Can you post the channel(s) you're talking about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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