"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow I am not over my ex! (I feel like an *******!)

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So I saw my ex with the guy she cheated on me on a party 8 months ago. I just wanted to say bye to her because I am leaving the country, and then I see them both together. I go up to the guy and tell him everything I did with her. And that she gave me a ******* the same day that she made out with him. And that I f'd the **** out of her. She walked away when I was talking to him. I feel like an assh*le now. What should I do, what should I have done?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bullethead said:
So I saw my ex with the guy she cheated on me on a party 8 months ago. I just wanted to say bye to her because I am leaving the country, and then I see them both together. I go up to the guy and tell him everything I did with her. And that she gave me a ******* the same day that she made out with him. And that I f'd the **** out of her. She walked away when I was talking to him. I feel like an assh*le now. What should I do, what should I have done?
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I now see why she left/cheated on you. First off, you're a MAN, act like it. You know what you should have done, and that was NOTHING. It's been eight months, yet you're so consumed emotionally over this girl, you went WELL out of your way to make a MUTE point.

She's obviously over you, get over her. Go meet other woman. Or find yourself acting a fool every time you see her.
 
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your right! I need to forget her. And today, I think helped. I am going to man up at start reading the DJ Bible.
 
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haha i received an fb message from her,
"don't ever speak to me or my friends ever again, you have absolutely no class. I ignore you b/c i don't like you..take a hint and stay the hell away from me, especially when I'm out and hanging out ppl who dont know or care abt you. I only associate with intelligent people, and obviously you are not one...i've never met anyone so pathetic...get a life....seriously"

She then blocks me. Kinda feels good. I am now 100% over her. lol
 
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She's right in her FB message, you acted like you have no class. The best thing you could have done was walk up to both of them and gave the perception it didn't bother you. She beat you on this situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She cheated on you 8 months ago. Get her out of your life.
 
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Weird.
 
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Forget theses faggots bullethead, i am right with you on this one.

She completely deseved it, the bit ch.

If she stays with this dude, he will always bring it up in arguments. If he finishes with her, he will probably bring it up..... you gave it back to her - kudos to you bro!!!!
 
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thanks for the backing... haha I just burned down a lot of bridges and made a lot of enemies at school. I don't know if I handled it wrong but I wanted to say something. I went no contact for 8 months. She was on my mind for 8 months. It was such a relief to say something. Now I barely think about her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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