.Paradox. said:
She never responded to my text, but I talked to her on Facebook.
ME: Hey *name*. Question... What's your favorite drink?
HER: drink? alcoholic?
ME: yeah
HER: I don't really drink that much
ME: Come on... Everyone has a go-to for when they go out. You ever tried a grateful dead?
HER: why are you asking
ME: I was gonna say we should have drinks sometime next week
HER: ohhh
ME: Plus you haven't lived till you've had a (good) grateful dead. It's like getting tipsy on Heaven
HER: lol I'll check it out
ME: So you down to have drinks?
HER: umm idk! I'll let you know
ME: Haha I won't be offended if you say you're not interested, hun. You can be straight up
No response to that last line.
Rant incoming...
I just had to say... I love the "ohhh" after you said you wanted to have drinks. Lmao she's excited, and not because she actually wants to have drinks with you, but because you re-inflated her ego after crushing it when she came over.
I also love how women make us men wait (for intimacy) all the time, give us mixed signals, bullsh!t us around, etc., but when we don't give them exactly what they want exactly when they want it, it's G-G-G-GOODBYE.
We men are slaves to sex. What the OP did should really be done more often. It would give us power back in the dating world.
