"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WOW FVCK....Check It Out...MOOD SWINGS

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April 10 was my birthday and i decided to take out my friend and the girl that likes me, which i like to, and her friend.

I pick her up and everything goes smooth. Sweet girl, truely beliving that i would like to establish a future with her. I never told her i liked her but showed her by taking her out. I stayed away from being AFC therefor used tips from the site which worked very well.

Anywayz we get to our destination and they werent open yet so we decide to go somewhere else...

***this is where the devil comes in***

All of a sudden in the car ride she becomes the ***** from hell. She was quiet, didnt talk to me, kept saying i dont care, and kept texting.

She was like this for the whole night, and when her friend and my friend would say whats wrong with you, why are u acting this way its his birthday, she would say Nothings wrong with me, I dont care if its his birthday.

I know from this site that girls are very weird and the have their mood swings.

I like this girl a lot and i know if she was just another Fvck Buddy for me id leave her and hook up with others.

But should i just ignore her for a while or what?

I dont want to end this bond we had?

Any comments would be appreciated

Thanks
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're leaving something important out of your story. If you want anyone to be able to really help you with your situation you need to provide all pertinent information.
 

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when i picked her up she gave me ballons...

we play fought....

and then Bam ***** MODE

btw on the way to the resturaunt i got pulled over for speeding but since it was my birthday the cop let me go
 

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O ya and in the car my friend started to play fight with her...and i didnt do anything...is that a reason?


seriously this situation is bizaar
 

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Something happened to upset her or she's crazy in the head. Those are the only two possibilities. I still think you're leaving something out that was said, though.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ HOSSIX said:
. She was quiet, didnt talk to me, kept saying i dont care, and kept texting.
Sounds like she got bad news over the text message. When chicks flip like that its either because the man she is seeing decides to end it (text messaging) or one of her girlfriend's telling her she found out her man was cheating on her.

The girl you like is probably seeing someone but she is just being very discreet about it.

DjDamage
 

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Ya ide think that 2 but ive been suppoodly "with her" for 6 months...

and she was usualy smiling on her text messages...which i know its a guy

but its weird though cause she calls me 4 am cause thats when i was born to say happy birthday and all this nice stuff

then at 7 am she goes and buys me ballons and a card and brings it to me.

Even at the begining of our date at nite she was very chill.

We did rough house a lil bit and i did hurt her a lil bit but i always do and shes coo with it.

In the car my friend and her usualy rough house 2 and he "playfully" choked her and at first i thought she got mad cause i didnt do anything.

After that she was a big *****.

But what tips are there for a situation like this.

The ignore and call in 2 weeks treatment.
Im not gonna say sorry either cause i know i havent done anything

Everyone who was with us were in shock of her behavior.

She also started talking about other guys, was she trying to get me jealous?

While she was in her ***** i paid less attention to her and more to her friend.

Ive hear the more her friend likes you, the more shell like you.

But anyways i appreciate all ur feed back

Thanks
 

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Well obviously she was pissed off about something. Who knows...
 

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Talkin with her best friend she said "you were 2 mean"

She said that when we were in the car, i had placed my hand on her back and she jokingly said "eww dont touch me"

and i replied with " you dont touch me you have cooties " and gently pushed her shoulder.

Her Best friend says you alway over react....? it doesnt seem like it 2 me.

For the ignore treatment do i call in 2 weeks or 7 days? or wait for her to do something?

Thanks
 

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Until your last post, I figured she had just bled all over her $20 panties or something.

Talkin with her best friend she said "you were 2 mean"
Don't get the friends involved with your relationship. They'll only make things worse. It's your gf's job to tell you what's wrong, even though it may take her a while to come out with it.

She said that when we were in the car, i had placed my hand on her back and she jokingly said "eww dont touch me"

and i replied with " you dont touch me you have cooties " and gently pushed her shoulder.
Just tell her you were being playful back, and let that sink into her mind for a while. Be friendly as hell when you approach her about this subject. If she can't overcome that, then she's got some major issues.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok the thing is after monday i havent talked with her.

If i talk with her, how should i approach it so i dont seem like an AFC?
 

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I'm like lost here bro too many lose ends to make a comment on either she's weird or she's weird I dunno most girls are like that.
 

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Ya man ive never witnessed such a mood change.

She sometimes has mood swings but the remeedy for that usualy was some kino.

Monday though it was like the devils ***** got into her.
 

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Lol Bro if it was that easy i wouldve been screwing other girls

Think of the movie Just Friends...

This girl is the girl i wanted from high school.

But back then i was over weight and a total AFC so i effed things up dramaticly.

One day being a total AFC i thought if i spill my heart shed feel the same for me.

Boy was i wrong she took it up the ass and went crazy on me.

The same day i found sosuave.com.

Read all the articles and began a workour routine.

2 months later, i began using the tips of a don juan and got closer to victory each day.

I just think she hasnt reach the age of full wisdom and therefor is over reacting.

I think im gonna have a chat with her in person and if she still is acting like a *****, i will just walk away and live my life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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