"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow fkd a girl i met at walmart of all places..

baurman

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so im there lookin at DVD/CD's in walmart and i notice this HOT HB9 there lookin near me (she is with her friend) and now i notice how she keeps staying in the same aisle as me. we made eye contact once and I knew I HAD to talk to her. So I turned and asked her "hey, which band do you like better linkin park or metallica?" and she responds then I introduce myself "I'm Jon" and she respods then we just chat about crap for about 5 minutes until I tell her "well I gotta get goin now, let me get your number so we can get together and do something sometime" so I get her number. I called her 2 days later because I really wanted to meet up with her again so we did, and brought her home to my house that night and ****ed her. ****ing amazing. Now I don't know if we're going to be in a relationship or a 1 night stand or what. Should I keep in contact with her? How exactly should I be able to tell if it was a one night stand?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bro that was nice story so it was that fast damn!!!! that girl is easy look i might not know this hb but believe me any girl that you meet and you **** her the next time you see her is either a slut,*****, or desperate girl that wants to lose her virginity.The samething has happened to me but i just like using this girls just to get what i want.

What you should do is get together and tell her you want to go to the movies or someplace to eat or the park this will get you to know her a lit bit better and pay attention to what she says the more you know the better it is .
I dont think anyone that can really answer your questions..
 

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lildevil said:
Bro that was nice story so it was that fast damn!!!! that girl is easy look i might not know this hb but believe me any girl that you meet and you **** her the next time you see her is either a slut,*****, or desperate girl that wants to lose her virginity.
WTF? you don't sarging do you, every girl I've layed was either day 1 or day 2, day 2 is when I lay most girls, its rare it takes a day 3. There are alot of guys in the community who only get same day lays. So u must not be running any good game if you spending a month just to fuvk one girl.

I remember I had a discussion with a female friend and she said before any guy can fuvk her they have to wait a month, my boy seen her only 3 times in a course of 2 or 3 weeks and laid her. Your acting like sex is only good for the guy, it isn't the girl loves it and wants it just as much.
 

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baurman said:
Should I keep in contact with her? How exactly should I be able to tell if it was a one night stand?
If you are asking this because you are even considering a relationship, think again. Not to "knock your game", but do you honestly think you're THAT special. If she had sex with you while hardly even knowing you, chances are she will do the same with many other guys. Sorry. I have known many girls in LTR now, and neither of them put out in a month, let alone 1 day. If you want to keep her around as a FB, then go ahead. But make sure she's clean. :crackup:
 

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first.... "hey, which band do you like better linkin park or metallica?"????? that's a hell of a pick up line.. just messin man.
but I had to say something. If you had sex with her on your first date there is no way a healthy relationship will come from that. try it out, but I garantee you it will be a very very sick relationship. The order for a good relationship is this: first friends, second relationship, third sex.... this is probably why I may never be in a relationship because I always like to skip to the third one first. oh well.. it's fun for now.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What are you all talking about? Just because a woman likes to have sex doesn't make her a slut, and as DJs you all should be the last ones using the term sluts.

This is what it is OP, she wanted sex, you wanted sex, you both got what you wanted. Now you decide, is the woman someone you might want to go for a relationship with? If so, go for it, if not, have fun having sex.

You guys need to get it in your heads, WOMEN LIKE GOOD SEX.
 

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lildevil said:
that girl is easy look i might not know this hb but believe me any girl that you meet and you **** her the next time you see her is either a slut,*****, or desperate girl that wants to lose her virginity
Dude, don't listen to this guy. She was in it for the fun, she may not be relationship material but I would def keep in contact for a possible FB. :D
 

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The order for a good relationship is this: first friends, second relationship, third sex
sorry me dude, but I have to massively dissagree with that.

I think you should be sexual from the beginning, for all kinds of reasons.
 

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LMAO someone negrepped me for not calling her a slut for enjoying sex.

Oh boy, next I'll be negrepped for actually RESPECTING women *gasp*.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pooparu said:
What are you all talking about? Just because a woman likes to have sex doesn't make her a slut, and as DJs you all should be the last ones using the term sluts.

This is what it is OP, she wanted sex, you wanted sex, you both got what you wanted. Now you decide, is the woman someone you might want to go for a relationship with? If so, go for it, if not, have fun having sex.

You guys need to get it in your heads, WOMEN LIKE GOOD SEX.
Man knows what he's talking about
 
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