Wow. First time ever - got stood up.

[Jhcl4000]

Met a girl on OkCupid earlier this week (yeah, first red flag lmao), we agreed to meet up and I got her number. Her texting was sporadic.. I tried to set something up earlier this week but she didn't respond. Figured I'd try again later. A few days pass and she hits me up yesterday asking ME out for tonight. I tell her where to meet me and the time (7pm). At 6:30 she texts me saying that she's gonna be 15 minutes late. I arrive to the bar at 7:15. She's not there. In a 45 minute period I text her twice AND call her (goes straight to voicemail). No responses from her at all.

Is it wrong that I HOPE she was in a car accident or is in a serial killers basement right now?

EDIT: LMAO! Checked her page on the site, it says she's online..

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I guess I would do the online dating if I was older and didn't get out much (I'm 22 now).. But for the most part I say fvck online dating.

A few girls I was out with one night were telling me about how they would make fake OKcupid accounts and message/text a guy to meet one of them at some bar, then when he'd show up they'd just start laughing hysterically then text him all sorts of fvcked up sh1t like "Oh you're not that cute I left"..

How immature can those chix possibly be? They must have a lot of time on their hands to be texting a dude that much just for 1 joke.. It is kind of funny lol. I'm glad I can swindle a few free drinks out of those girls, otherwise I wouldn't even let them be seen with me.

 

[8ball]

Don't sweat it. Maybe she got cold feet.

 

[cupraikso]

Did you ever have a phone conversation with her?

For all we know, it could have been a fat old guy sitting on the PC giving innocents false hopes.

 

[corrector]

Maybe she thought you were a loser that posts on sosuave and got cold feet meeting you. Wow. First time ever. Guess you are not a stood-up virgin anymore. Congratulations!

 

[Jhcl4000]

Did you ever have a phone conversation with her?

For all we know, it could have been a fat old guy sitting on the PC giving innocents false hopes.

Good point. But she called me at some point and left a message, so I know she's real.

 

[Robert28]

I guess I would do the online dating if I was older and didn't get out much (I'm 22 now).. But for the most part I say fvck online dating.

A few girls I was out with one night were telling me about how they would make fake OKcupid accounts and message/text a guy to meet one of them at some bar, then when he'd show up they'd just start laughing hysterically then text him all sorts of fvcked up sh1t like "Oh you're not that cute I left"..
How immature can those chix possibly be? They must have a lot of time on their hands to be texting a dude that much just for 1 joke.. It is kind of funny lol. I'm glad I can swindle a few free drinks out of those girls, otherwise I wouldn't even let them be seen with me.

just when you think women couldn't get any more stupid...they seem to surpass your expectations.lol these are the same chicks who will find themselves in a relationship where they get their teeth knocked out of their head for a year or so every other night and then ***** and moan about it to you like you're supposed to feel sorry for them. i wouldn't let them buy me a drink, they could keep their dirty money for all i care.

 

[Robert28]

Met a girl on OkCupid earlier this week (yeah, first red flag lmao), we agreed to meet up and I got her number. Her texting was sporadic.. I tried to set something up earlier this week but she didn't respond. Figured I'd try again later. A few days pass and she hits me up yesterday asking ME out for tonight. I tell her where to meet me and the time (7pm). At 6:30 she texts me saying that she's gonna be 15 minutes late. I arrive to the bar at 7:15. She's not there. In a 45 minute period I text her twice AND call her (goes straight to voicemail). No responses from her at all.

Is it wrong that I HOPE she was in a car accident or is in a serial killers basement right now?

EDIT: LMAO! Checked her page on the site, it says she's online..

i would rather be stood up and not spend a dime on a chick that wasn't interested in me, then to have to spend an entire night with one and spend money on one and THEN figure out she wasn't interested in me a few days later with her bull$hit flakiness and not returning texts/calls and leaving you to figure it all out on your own.

 

[Zodiac]

Met a girl on OkCupid earlier this week (yeah, first red flag lmao), we agreed to meet up and I got her number. Her texting was sporadic.. I tried to set something up earlier this week but she didn't respond. Figured I'd try again later. A few days pass and she hits me up yesterday asking ME out for tonight. I tell her where to meet me and the time (7pm). At 6:30 she texts me saying that she's gonna be 15 minutes late. I arrive to the bar at 7:15. She's not there. In a 45 minute period I text her twice AND call her (goes straight to voicemail). No responses from her at all.

Don't call her again as you've called her and sent messages. You don't want to appear desperate now do you? Sounds like you should ice her and just move on. Save some face as you haven't had a date with her yet.

Is it wrong that I HOPE she was in a car accident or is in a serial killers basement right now?

That does sound a little like your ego got bruised and you are pissed off. nothing wrong with that but I hope you don't make this worse by flying off the handle on her voicemail. Again I have to say just move on.

EDIT: LMAO! Checked her page on the site, it says she's online..

This last bit to me sounds AFC to me. Again you got to move on. Don't let this girl make you go into oneitis. You haven't even dated her period so there is no reason to be this enamored with her man.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Don't overanalyze. Charge it to the game!

 

[Alex DeLarge]

i would rather be stood up and not spend a dime on a chick that wasn't interested in me, then to have to spend an entire night with one and spend money on one and THEN figure out she wasn't interested in me a few days later with her bull$hit flakiness and not returning texts/calls and leaving you to figure it all out on your own.

Lol tell me about it.. The funny part is all of these girls are below 5. I don't get how the fvck they can possibly think they're even worthy of the said guy's time.