"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wow did i lose my game! HELP!!

toddC

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Okay, well this weekend all I cared about was getting a$$...Its been a few weeksn since I got any because I just wanted to hang with friends after i broke up with my girlfriend...

But then I decided I was ready to go get some pvssey again and so thsi weekend was it.

So up came friday and we had plans to hang out with these BANGING HB8 and HB9. Myself and my friend were exited and it ended up that he threw a party with about 50 or 60 people there. Now another girl (that I used to hookup with) called me asking to hang so I was like yea come to this party. So I go through the night drinkin w/e and I realize that I'm doing NOTHING to get these girls. I would occasionally go over and talk to them for about a minute and that was it...I even saw the HB 9 give me "the look" but I still couldn't sit there and keep conversation with her I just had to walk around everywhere...

Now my friend on the other hand I have NO F*CK*** idea what he was doing diffrently. He was all over the place aswell but when he did talk to people for more than 30 seconds it was with these 2 chicks. Now he got with both of them that night and I'm like WTF. Towards the end of the night I even talked to them a lot and still NOTHING! The only thing I picked up on was that I didn't kino as much as I should have..

Now tahts just an example. Since I've broken up with my Girlfriend there have been no girls presenting themselves to me as options. i've almost given up on all girls from my school. This past year (since I got to this site) I've been fortunate enough to have a girl present themselves as an option every time I stop getting with soem other girl. But this time is diffrent, why? This is an act of desperation boys. I NEED A$$, I NEED GIRLS TO WANT ME, AND I NEED TO GET MY GAME BACK! HELP ME! (btw...i'm a pretty good looking kid so it has nothign to do with looks)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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toddC said:
Okay, well this weekend all I cared about was getting a$$...Its been a few weeksn since I got any because I just wanted to hang with friends after i broke up with my girlfriend...

But then I decided I was ready to go get some pvssey again and so thsi weekend was it.

So up came friday and we had plans to hang out with these BANGING HB8 and HB9. Myself and my friend were exited and it ended up that he threw a party with about 50 or 60 people there. Now another girl (that I used to hookup with) called me asking to hang so I was like yea come to this party. So I go through the night drinkin w/e and I realize that I'm doing NOTHING to get these girls. I would occasionally go over and talk to them for about a minute and that was it...I even saw the HB 9 give me "the look" but I still couldn't sit there and keep conversation with her I just had to walk around everywhere...

Now my friend on the other hand I have NO F*CK*** idea what he was doing diffrently. He was all over the place aswell but when he did talk to people for more than 30 seconds it was with these 2 chicks. Now he got with both of them that night and I'm like WTF. Towards the end of the night I even talked to them a lot and still NOTHING! The only thing I picked up on was that I didn't kino as much as I should have..

Now tahts just an example. Since I've broken up with my Girlfriend there have been no girls presenting themselves to me as options. i've almost given up on all girls from my school. This past year (since I got to this site) I've been fortunate enough to have a girl present themselves as an option every time I stop getting with soem other girl. But this time is diffrent, why? This is an act of desperation boys. I NEED A$$, I NEED GIRLS TO WANT ME, AND I NEED TO GET MY GAME BACK! HELP ME! (btw...i'm a pretty good looking kid so it has nothign to do with looks)
Oh boy... Dude, this is serious AFC stuff you're saying here. You don't NEED girls. They're just a nice thing to have in your already kick-ass life, right? I think what the problem is that you were worried about losing your game before all of this happened, which took away your confidence, which actually caused you to lose your game. All in all, I think that it's all in your head, and that re-reading some of the basics in the Bible and relaxing a bit, maybe taking a week or so off of the whole girl scene should do you wonders. Good luck to you.
 

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toddC said:
Okay, well this weekend all I cared about was getting a$$...Its been a few weeksn since I got any because I just wanted to hang with friends after i broke up with my girlfriend...


Now tahts just an example. Since I've broken up with my Girlfriend there have been no girls presenting themselves to me as options. i've almost given up on all girls from my school. This past year (since I got to this site) I've been fortunate enough to have a girl present themselves as an option every time I stop getting with soem other girl. But this time is diffrent, why? This is an act of desperation boys. I NEED A$$, I NEED GIRLS TO WANT ME, AND I NEED TO GET MY GAME BACK! HELP ME! (btw...i'm a pretty good looking kid so it has nothign to do with looks)
You need your own self motivation. By going out with the mindset that you "need" women is in one word...needy. Just by having that mindset, you're giving off a desperate and immature signal to others around you. Get on track with your own life and screw your head on straight. Only after you've gotten control of your own life, will women start to become attracted to you.

-Damian
 
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