Wow! College is dissapointing!!!

[Ko-B]

ok, i dunno, i DEFINITELY think uni's a good place to go and meet chicks, but u gotta know where to meet em and at the right places

growing up in an international school, people from my university are a LOT different than i am (personality wise). girls tend to be more conservative and held back, less wild. thats one of the downsides i found from unis here in manila

but u will find girls...face it, university is HUGE...they can't be all cold fishes. college events, parties, etc...there's plenty of poons to go around.

i stress the fact that chicks will start comin whenever ur not lookin for them.

hope that contributed somehow...later

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Hey I'm in Canada and it's cool. Well cold to be exact But that's another story. Anywho, you just gotta keep pushing ahead. Like clas isn't the only time for interactions. One of THE prime times for me is durin eating times. I don't call up my friends and ask them to go. I go down there solo and if we meet up, so be it, if not I'll find some new friends to kick it with. I saw an interesting post on a differnt site that said "Don't be caught with one social circle" keep jumping from each to each, so no-one can hold you back, but everyone gets to know you, and can't judge you from far away"

The other thing I did is sat down and read a paper outside of a class where people were lining up for class and the people were just walking by giving eye contact non stop, so you can always chill outside a classroom before and after and people wikll be in a more talkative mood

 

[DJUofS]

Originally posted by Dukester
I commute... I expect a lot, and I get a lot. It's all about what you put into it- exceed your expectations, and dont limit yourself

I commute as well... but I am practically dorming. I am up there from morning till night everyday, and party every weekend. Commuting doesn't necessarily mean a bad thing, however, I regret not dorming to begin with.

 

[Juan_Man]

It depends on how big the school is. If it's a small school, your chances of making stable friends will be easier but it may be harder to date because there are fewer girls to choose from. Cliques are more rampant at smaller schools, so b!tch shields will be aplenty. Good luck.

 

[jakethasnake]

There may also be a difference between private and public schools (universities). Private school girls may be more reserved, because they tend to come from more upper class backgrounds (sometimes, of course not all Ivy League girls are from Old Money - many are also scholarship winners, etc from normal socioeconomic levels). I dunno.... just a guess.